Do Romantic Comedies Mess With Your Love Life
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on April 20, 2012 - 1:50 pm
Be honest…do romantic comedies f*** with your love life?
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Charles J. Orlando And I weigh in on the dangers of buying into what romantic comedies tell us about love.
If you’ve ever compared your romantic relationship to Drew Barrymore’s, Katherine Heigl’s, or Jennifer Aniston’s, then it might be time to STOP watching romantic comedies and START getting real about love!
What’s your fave romantic comedy? Post it here.
Does Facebook Lead to Cheating?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on April 18, 2012 - 9:52 am
Be honest. Do you flirt on social media. Have you ever reconnected with an ex in hopes of rekindling an old romance?
Does Facebook lead to infidelity?
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Charles J Orlando and I weigh in on the dangers of flirting on social media. Find out if it’s healthy or harmful. And share your comments here or weigh in on Woohoo Radio live with Charles and me every first Wednesday of the month.
Should You Be Friends With Your Ex?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on April 1, 2012 - 9:36 am
Be honest? Are you trying to stay friends with your ex?
Do you still text, IM, Facebook, and tweet?
And are you able to move on and date other people?
In this episode of He Said, She Said, Best-selling authors Charles J. Orlando and Lisa Steadman dish on the pros and oh so many cons of staying friends with your ex…
Post your thoughts here or weigh in on Woohoo Radio live with Lisa & Charles every first Wednesday of the month!
What Happens At Woohoo Weekend
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 11, 2011 - 1:59 pm
Want insider access to Lisa Steadman’s Woohoo Weekend? In this behind the scenes video, you’ll see what happens over 2 days with 14 experts and a village of like-minded individuals looking to celebrate the Woohoo that they do!
PLUS, to get on the VIP list for the 2012 Woohoo Weekend Tour, visit woohooweekendtour.com!
Ready to Rejoice, Renew, Reflect?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 29, 2010 - 7:00 am
As the holidays approach, are you approaching with sadness, despair, and disappointment over your last relationship?
If so, that’s okay. But it’s time for a reality check.
Instead of feeling sorry for yourself this holiday season, take the time to rejoice, renew, and reflect.
Ask yourself these questions:
- How did this year go?
- Where do I want to go next year?
- What do I want to celebrate that I learned this year, even if it was painful to learn it?
- What do I want to let go of that no longer serves me?
- What do I want to accomplish in the new year that I need to change my behavior to do?
Spend some time this holiday season rejoicing, renewing and reflecting. As you do, you will see that you are not behind schedule with your life, you are actually right on time.
For more tips on how to celebrate being single and ready to mingle this holiday season and into 2011, enroll in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge for Singles.
You can also pick up one of my 3 books, depending on where you are on the journey way from Mr. Wrong and towards Mr. Right:
It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right
This Holiday Season, Become Your Own Arm Candy
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 28, 2010 - 7:00 am
Are you looking at the calendar and dreading the holiday social scene because you hate being minus a plus one at parties?
I get it.
But before you throw in the towel, hide under the covers, and mope until New Year’s, I’ve got a better idea…
Become your own arm candy!
You heard me.
Celebrate your fab single self so that when you walk into your next holiday party, you’re not announcing your breakup by suddenly being a minus plus one. Instead, you’re struting your stuff into that party like you own the room and are the most fabulous single woman there!
This may take some practice to cultivate if you are struggling with your self esteem these days.
Here are some practical tips to help you celebrate your fab single self :
- Get a new do’
- Get new makeup and a makeover
- Get a new wardrobe
Before each party, put on your fave fun girl music. Dance around the house. Put it on the car and rock out on your way to the party.
When you arrive, make your saucy entrance. Work the room. Laugh, have fun, and enjoy the party!
The goal here is not to make a love connection (although if that happens, great!). It’s to reconnect to your fabulous factor, heal your heart, and move on by New Years Eve.
For added support, pick up a copy of It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good! and It’s a Breakup, Not a Breakdown Workbook: A 21-Day Action Plan to Plot Your Revenge, Spoil Yourself, and Find Out How Good Your Life Is Without Him and immerse yourself in your very own 21 day recovery program.
You can also follow all my breakup rx advice and single and loving it advice for free on my blog.
Single this holiday season? How to survive & celebrate!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 27, 2010 - 7:00 am
With the holidays upon us, healing and moving on from a broken heart can be especially challenging.
You worry about being the only one minus a plus one at parties.
And sometimes you’re freaked out because you don’t want to answer all of those mind numbing and selfish questions:
Where’s whats his name?
What happened?
What went wrong THIS time?
Sound familiar? I get it. I’ve been there myself.
Healing your heart during the holidays can feel painful, hurtful, and like there’s something wrong with you.
Before you hide under the covers until New Year’s, give yourself permission to pick and choose the parties you go to.
Now, don’t become hermit — choose the parties where there will be people who love you, support you, and nurture you. Gravitate towards situations where your friends and loved ones can help you celebrate your single status.
While healing your heart during the holidays can be challenging, it’s not impossible. Stay focused, honor your progress and setbacks, and know that this, too, will pass.
For more tips on how to heal your broken heart and reclaim your single self this holiday season and into 2011, check out my breakup rx tips on my blog.
You can also pick up one of my 3 books, depending on where you are on the journey way from Mr. Wrong and towards Mr. Right:
It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right
Tis the Season to…Celebrate Your Holiday Slump!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 26, 2010 - 7:00 am
With the holidays here, I’ve been giving you tips to help celebrate your single status so you’re not walking around feeling sad, depressed, and mopey.
But let’s be real. Sometimes a girl’s gotta feel sad, depressed and mopey.
Still go ahead – celebrate your slump this holiday season!
Give yourself permission to feel down, disappointed, and lost when the mood strikes you.
Give yourself permission to decline an invitation or two, If you’re not feeling up to being social. Sit on your couch, put on your sweats, watch a sappy movie, listen to tear jerking music, write in your journal, and/or read a good book.
Let yourself feel that slump and grieve.
Let yourself get mad, depressed, and feel every emotion you need to feel! You can’t really move through a breakup until you’ve experienced the 5 stages of grief.
While I don’t want you to live in your slump or spend the entire holiday season moping around, give yourself permission, when the mood strikes, to go to that dark place as long as you have an exit strategy.
For more tips on how to celebrate being single and ready to mingle this holiday season and into 2011, enroll in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge for Singles.
You can also pick up one of my 3 books, depending on where you are on the journey way from Mr. Wrong and towards Mr. Right:
It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right
Minus A Plus One This Holiday Season? Splurge on Yourself?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 25, 2010 - 7:00 am
Here’s another great way to celebrate your single status this holiday season. With no expensive gifts to buy for your ex, you can splurge on yourself!
Maybe in the past you splurged a little to much on your ex during the holidays.
Maybe you stuffed his stocking, put a lot of presents under the tree, or bought the electronics you knew he would love.
Guess what? You don’t have to do that this holiday season. That is a HUGE savings on your budget.
And here’s what I want you to do with that cash. I want you to stash it away for something fun next year.
Maybe you put it away for that solo vacation you’ve been dreaming of, that home you want to buy, continuing your education or working with a coach. Or maybe you just want to do something fun and fabulous that in the past you’ve only dreamed of.
START DREAMING BIG!
Instead of overindulging this holiday season, be sure to celebrate your single self and set aside some cash for next year so you can have some fun and step into your fabulous future!
Ready to heal your heart by new years eve? Pick up a copy of It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
How to be a Holiday Flirt!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 23, 2010 - 7:00 am
I’ve got another great tip to celebrate your single self this holiday season…
I want you to become a flirting master!
Now, you don’t have to lose 20 pounds to rock your inner flirt.
You don’t have to get plastic surgery or get a new wardrobe either.
Flirting can happen anytime, anywhere, with anyone.
When you’re at the grocery store and looking for produce, keep a look out for the cuties in your vicinity. Smile, make eye contact, and give him permission to approach.
By giving yourself permission to be open and to see who’s in your environment, you can start flirting and having fun today. This is your chance to reclaim your fabulousness, and what better time then the holiday season!
For more tips on how to celebrate being single and ready to mingle this holiday season and into 2011, enroll in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge for Singles.
You can also pick up one of my 3 books, depending on where you are on the journey way from Mr. Wrong and towards Mr. Right:
It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right
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