Are you scared to be single?

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 12, 2010 - 7:15 am

Comments (0)»

When it comes to being single, what scares you the most…

Standing on your own two feet?

Not having a date on Saturday night?

Never dating again?

Never meeting your perfect partner, falling in love, and experiencing your very own version of happily ever after?

All of the above?

The truth is, you ARE worthy of love, warts and all.  Your happily ever after still exists.  It’s just up to you to redefine it. In the meantime, it’s okay to be scared to be single.  It may be new and unfamiliar territory, but guess what? As uncomfortable as it can sometimes feel, being single is also a gift and a blessing. And in time, you may just discover that you actually enjoy being single.

So how do you change how you feel about being single?

First, you admit that you still want to find love. That’s natural, normal, and biological.

Second, you surrender to NOT knowing when it will show up.

Then, you start creating a life YOU love, complete with taking full responsibility for your emotional well being, your financial fitness, and any other baggage that may be weighing you down.

And then you put yourself in target rich environments several times a week.

Practice flirting.

Rock your mojo.

And celebrate fabulous YOU! In doing so, you’ll ease up on the self-imposed and societal pressure to couple up and instead live and love your life today.

If you’re ready to do what it takes to find Mr. Right, enroll in my FREE 30 Day Get Out There Challenge.

And be sure to pick up my man-ifesto for meeting Mr. Right: If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right, available on Amazon and in bookstores.

For added support, join my Facebook Fan page here:
http://www.facebook.com/LisaSteadmanFans