Feeling lost when it comes to love?

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 10, 2010 - 7:03 am

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Now that you know the signs you’re hung up on What could have been, how to STOP feeling like a failure at love, and how to END your suffering for wasting too much time with Mr. Wrong, it’s time to get some serious clarity.

It’s time to stop feeling lost when it comes to finding Mr. Right.

Let’s get your internal compass working again!

First, let’s determine where you got lost in the first place.

If you spent most of your last relationship catering to your ex’s every need, don’t beat yourself up for being too accommodating. Celebrate the fact that you’ve got a lot of love to give. Moving forward, why not put all of that amazing love and attention on your own interests, your own needs, your own self nurturing?  That way, you’ll never again get lost in a relationship, living solely for the purpose of helping your partner get everything they want and need, all the while feeling suffocated, isolated, and/or under-appreciated.

Truthfully, in a healthy and happy relationship, wants and needs are a two-way street.  You take care of yourself AND your partner, and vice versa.

Starting right now, ask yourself what it would FEEL like to get your needs met.

Imagine how your life would improve if Mr. Right was there for you.

It’s possible. First, you have to connect to how healthy and happy love looks and feels. Define it. Meditate on it. Journal about it.

CONNECT to it regularly so you’ll be able to recognize it when it shows up in your life.

Then when it shows up and you recognize it, don’t run the other way. Celebrate the fact that you’re a powerful manifester.

And embrace the fact that you are not lost nor are you a loser at love. You are right on time for YOUR happily ever after.

Stay tuned for more tips on how to set yourself free from dating drama and disappointment.

And if you’re REALLY ready to do what it takes to find Mr. Right, enroll in my FREE 30 Day Get Out There Challenge.

Pick up my man-ifesto for meeting Mr. Right: If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right, available on Amazon and in bookstores.

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Love that! In the meantime, focus all that love and attention on Y-O-U.