Day 30: Celebrate YOUR success!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on June 30, 2010 - 6:00 am
Woohoo! Welcome to Day 30 in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge!
What was your favorite part of the challenge? What did you find most challenging?
What kind of results did you experience?
I can’t WAIT to here how you did during the challenge.
Even if you only implemented a few of the tips, celebrate your success. Treat yourself to a mani-pedi. A glass of wine. A relaxing massage. And keep rocking these tips moving forward.
And be sure to share your Woohoo!s here on the blog. I can’t wait to hear from you!
For more tips like this, check out http://lisasteadman.com/category/30-day-challenge/
2 Comments»
July 6, 2010 at 12:51 pm
I admit I didn’t do the entire 30 Day Challenge. The first 5 months of 2010 were consumed with dating more than I’ve ever dated before, so by the time June (and the challenge) rolled around, I was ready for a BREAK, not a get-out-there challenge!
But I followed it every day and took notes on the things I really need to work on – eye contact, smiling at cuties everywhere, creative ways to talk to guys. Your tips run through my head a lot. The most helpful things for me, aside from those little tips were these two exercises: the one where you list 20 reasons you’re a good catch! and the one where you focus on what the relationship you’re seeking looks like.
I’d pretty much gone through the exercise of figuring out what characteristics were most important to me in a mate, but I had *never* focused on what was most important to me in a *relationship* So, at one point (using Arielle Ford’s ideas) I manifested the exact partner I was seeking! But the relationship was *not* what I was seeking! It was gut-wrenchingly painful to let go because *he* was everything I was seeking in a person, but the relationship was *not* Because I had not focused on what the relationship should be…I was just focused on what the person should be. Wow! It was a lightbulb moment for me.
Thanks so much for this.
July 7, 2010 at 2:12 pm
I love that you took notes and dug into what hasn’t worked in the past. This is your key to moving forward. Let me know how I can support you in doing that.
btw, do you know about my Ask Lisa call next week? You can ask me anything about relationships and I’ll answer you live. Here’s the link to sign up: http://lisasteadman.com/2010/07/06/back-by-popular-demand-ask-lisa-anything/
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