Day 29: Do you know the difference between Mr. Next and Mr. Right?

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on June 29, 2010 - 6:00 am

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With just two days left in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge, let’s review what you’ve been learning…

You’ve broken free from your belief that all men are JERKS.

You’ve unlocked the secrets of staying sexy, stylish, AND single over 40.

You’ve even learned how to date like a grownup.

Next, it’s time to understand the subtle differences between Mr. Next and Mr. Right. That way, when he shows up, you can recognize the difference.

Mr. Next is any guy you date who’s got potential. You can date Mr. Next as long as you want until you realize that he’s not a suitable match for you and your long-term goals and relationship requirements. Once you recognize that he’s not the guy for you, let him go. That way, you cut down on wasted dating time for both of you.

Mr. Right on the other hand is an elusive but oh so worth the wait guy who meets all of your relationship requirements, is emotionally available for commitment, and shares similar values and long-term goals. It takes time to find Mr. Right, and that’s fantastic! Not just anybody can be your perfect partner. Choose wisely.

For more on the sometimes subtle differences between Mr. Next and Mr.Rright, pick up my book If He’s Not The One, Who Is? What went wrong and what it takes to find Mr. Right.

And be sure to share your Woohoo!s here on the blog.

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