Day 19: Surrender to NOT knowing when Mr. Right will show up

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on June 19, 2010 - 6:00 am

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Are you pissed off that Mr. Right hasn’t shown up yet?

Are you so stressed out about when Prince charming will ride in on his white horse that you can’t see straight?

Do you feel like Charlotte did on Sex & The city before she met Trey, wondering where your dream man is?

Do you often find yourself wondering aloud, “Where is he?!”

I get it. I’ve been there. And yet this intensity is messing with your chances of meeting Mr. Right.

If you feel ridiculously behind schedule, you don’t have accurate thinking. You’re far too focused on what’s NOT in your life rather than what IS.

Today, take a chill pill. Relax. Surrender to the unknown.

You don’t know when Mr. Right’s going to show up. So why try and control it? Why not simply surrender to the fact that that part of your life is still unfolding? And that’s exciting!

Let go of your need to KNOW. Surrender to the imperfection of not knowing. And get on with your fabulous life.

Now that you know how to put yourself in target rich environments, how to flirt, and how to talk to men, you’ve already cut down on wasted time waiting around for some guy. Celebrate that! And continue rocking my 30 day challenge.

For hands on help pick up a copy of my e-book Bad Love No More! and my latest book If He’s Not The One, Who Is: What went wrong and what it takes to find Mr. Right.

Good luck! Report your progress here. I’d love to hear from you!

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