Sherri Nickols on 7 Steps to Sparkle!

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on June 17, 2010 - 6:00 am

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Are you one of the millions of women who have forgotten who you are? Do you desire to be playful, sensual, enchanting but don’t remember how (or maybe never learned)? Are you stuck in a daily routine that leaves you asking, “ Where did that fun-loving, sexy woman go?”

Face it. You’ve changed. Somewhere along the way, you lost your Self.

During Lisa’s 30 Day Get Out There Challenge, I invite you to rediscover your Self.

Finding the road back to your feminine, sparkling essence is easier than you might think. As women, we need to know how to connect with our “Enchantress” energy, our innate juiciness so we can feel and live fully.

It’s time to acknowledge your inherent beauty; embrace with gratitude your womanhood; honor and respect your divine light; wake up and discover the playful, adventurous woman in you!

When you give yourself permission to live in this radiant state you will be able to attract all the goodies of life. How do you achieve this dazzling state? By retrieving and polishing your sassy sparkle with consistency and conscious actions.

To make it easy for you to get the sludge off your shine, here is a simple 7-step formula that spells out S.P.A.R.K.L.E.

S… Is for Smile
Smiling lights you up from the inside out. No matter what you look like flashing your pearly whites will always make you sparkle and your eyes twinkle. And it’s the quickest way to communicate your joy, happiness, love, friendliness and approachability. On the flirtatious side, a smile is equivalent to a feminine lair—inviting a man into your space.. Smiling is always a win-win.

P… Is for Passion
Passion is that effusive energy that screams, “I’m ALIVE.” It brings vibrancy to your entire being showcasing your gorgeous goddess spirit. Passion seduces everyone in its path with its fiery flames. If you want to captivate your man simply figure out what ignites your soul.

A… Is for Attitude
A positive attitude is more than a cheery disposition—it’s connecting, owning and embracing the fullness of who you are. It’s the brilliant mastery of recognizing the negative aspects that you face, and choosing instead to focus on the hope and opportunity available within every situation.. It’s approaching life with grace and gratitude and living in expansion—trying new things, exploring new thoughts, embarking on new adventures.

R… Is for Rumba
Conjure images from this sexy Cuban dance as you move through your day. Hips swaying and lots of sensual movement. Create a stir girl! The awareness of how you are moving will help you become present to your feminine power. Don’t let this stop with your body—carry the captivation into your clothes, hair and facial expression. It all works together to make you tantalizing.

K… Is for “Know Who You Are and What You Stand For”
Getting back to who you are means living authentically in your truth. You have a beautiful, intimate bond with your inner self. There is no seeking of external approval and you steer clear of people pleasing. Pride and reverence describe how you feel about your values.

L… Is for Laughter
Laughter is the sunshine of your soul and creates instant connection. As a woman you have an innate gift of flirtatiousness, playfulness, softness—this is your feminine power. Make playtime as important as work time and mom time. You wouldn’t blow off a client would you? So why are you blowing off your need for fun and romantic adventure? Put it in your weekly planner and then do it!

E… Is for Embrace Your Enchantress
Living as the enchantress you were born to be requires balancing your softness with your power. Know when to flip from doing to being. Give yourself permission to get in touch with your sensual side, and more importantly, get comfortable with it! Rediscover how to play and flirt, be sassy and sensual, and create the love and romance you dream of.

Follow the S.P.A.R.K.L.E. secrets and you will find your shining authentic Self again, living fully with joie de vivre!

About The Expert

For more than ten years, relationship coach Sherri Nickols has helped career-driven female professionals and “Super Moms” from around the globe get their sparkle on, empowering them to live fully Self-expressed in love and life.

She inspires women to recapture their feminine strengths while re-establishing the love, intimacy, playfulness and connection with their partner, friends and Self via her weekly teleseminar series, “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun,”  TelePlayshop courses, private coaching and blog at www.UnleashYourself.com.