30 Day Woohoo Challenge: Day #2 – Who are you still holding onto?

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on March 11, 2010 - 6:13 am

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Today, I want you to start identifying who/what is holding you back on your journey to find love.

First, ask yourself this:

Are you still hung up on your ex?

Whether he’s still in your life or not, your ex may be sabotaging your chances of finding love if:

- you compare every man you meet to your ex and they never measure up

- your ex’s criticical messages are in your head constantly, i.e. “You’re too fat”, “You’re too screwed up”, “You’ll come back – watch!”

- you’re so afraid of getting hurt again that you’re completely shut down when it comes to love

OR, do you live with the story that tells you you’re unworthy of love?

Have you spent a lifetime in silent agreement about what’s possible for you in life and love?

Maybe you cosmically agreed you’d be healthy and successful but alone and lonely, or that you can have love but be poor.

Or who are you afraid of punishing if you’re happy?

“I won’t be more successful or happy than my parents,” is a common silent agreement. So are:

- “My mom told me I didn’t deserve love, so it must be true.”

- “My ex cheated on me so all men are scum.”

- “My parents split up so all relationships are temporary, messy, and miserable.”

Today, start identifying and breaking free of the stories that no longer serve you. Here are some awesome resources:

If you’re still mourning your ex, pick up a copy of It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!

Ready to BUST THROUGH those old stories and limiting beliefs TODAY? Get my e-book Bad Love No More, available @ http://badlovenomore.com/