Isn’t it time to start building your love WEALTH?

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on February 22, 2010 - 4:45 pm

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This weekend, my husband and I were talking about what it means to be wealthy.

As small business owners, we know a lot of entrepreneurs who are struggling in this economy.

We also know plenty of people who are struggling with love.

Honestly, it’s not about how much money you make, or how much love you have right now.

What’s truly important is what you are building for the future.

If you’re in business for yourself, it doesn’t matter how much cash flows into your bank account every month.

If it all goes back out the door, you are still living in poverty.

In matters of the heart, the same is true.

If you never learn from your dating experiences, never apply lessons learned to past relationships, and never take responsibility for your actions when it comes to your search for love, you will remain in love poverty.

However, if you decide to face yourself, deal with what’s happening, and start taking steps to become clearer about the kind of love you desire, you can start building your love wealth today.

With or without a man.

How fabulous is that?!

Here’s how it works.

Take an honest look at your life right now.

Where do you feel wealthy?

Where do you feel impoverished?

Chances are, the areas you feel wealthy in – health, home, family, etc. – you’ve been nurturing those areas for some time now.

You’ve figured out how to succeed in those areas.

You’ve devoted love, time, and attention there.

The areas you feel impoverished in – money, love, body, spirit – these areas you may be living in denial about.

Maybe these are areas that feel too dark and scary to discuss.

But by staying in denial and fear, we just perpetuate the problem.

And it grows.

And grows.

And grows!

So many people talk about wealth consciousness. How to make money. How to shift your awareness. How to believe money is flowing into your life…

But not everybody talks about the underbelly of true wealth.

It’s not a get rich quick scheme.

It’s a slow and steady, methodical, patient, loving journey.

It takes time. And it’s worth every minute you devote to it!

And you can start today, regardless of how much money is in your bank account right now, or how much you owe.

Let me share something with you.

I’ve been building my business for 5 years now. And I’ve experienced tremendous success. And I give thanks every day for the abundance of opportunities that I’ve attracted.

But 5 years into my business, I’m just starting to have the wealth conversations I should have been having for the last 5 years.

And while I’m just starting the conversations, I already feel — for the first time in my business — truly wealthy.

Why?

Because I’ve got a plan. I’ve hired a CFO to help me execute my plan. And if I have a question, all I have to do is pick up the phone and call my CFO.

Once upon a time, the idea of bringing a CFO into my business would have been scary.

But in order to continue building wealth, it’s time.

Isn’t it time for YOU to build YOUR love wealth?

Here’s how.

Starting right now, love yourself with compassion and clarity. You are an extraordinary individual who deserves all the good life has to offer.

As you are right now, you deserve the love of a good man (or woman, I’ve read your emails!).

You deserve the unconditional support, understanding, joy, and love of someone who sees exactly who you are and wants to be a part of your life.

You deserve all this just for being you.

And to start attracting such wealth of love into your life, start celebrating your life and the lessons you’ve learned.

Instead of casting every person from your past off as not “The One,” instead reflect back on what you liked, what worked, how they made you feel, and what you want to carry into your next relationship.

Then, shift into the awareness that you are not living in lack. You are making room for wealth by devoting daily gratitude for the love already IN your life, and creating MORE space for MORE love to flow in — and stay in!

Think of it this way. When love comes to you, if you’re still living in lack, you may try to hoard it.

And that will only drive it away.

But if you stay expanded, you can graciously receive the love, celebrate the love, give love in return, and create a space of love wealth that can build and grow and sustain itself for the long haul.

Today, start playing with the idea of investing in your love wealth.

And let me know what comes up for you. I always love hearing from you!

And…with my 8 Week If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Teleclass starting tomorrow, what better way to build your love wealth than by joining me?

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http://www.ifhesnottheonewhois.com/

Hurry! Class starts tomorrow. And we want you to join us!