NYC Event: Living, Loving, & Flirting With Heart
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 29, 2010 - 7:30 am
Attention Single Women: Imagine for a moment that it’s six months from today, and you’ve met the most wonderful man in the whole world. You have finally met your match, your life partner, your soul mate. When your eyes meet there’s a “yes!” that tells you this is the one you’ve been waiting for. You feel a deep connection, a strong attraction, and are ready to open your heart.
Is this what you want to create in your life? Is this what you have been waiting for?
If so, you’ve come to the right place!
This experiential workshop, offered by 3 leading experts in the field of relationship and dating, will send you home with the power tools you need to manifest the relationship of your dreams.
This is an event you do not want to miss!
Tickets are $35/person
** To register ASAP, email me: lisa@lisasteadman.com
Bring a friend for FREE!
When you sign up NOW, you get to bring a friend for FREE!
Join other women, like you, who intend to have the best year of their lives in 2010.
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DETAILS
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On Wednesday, Feb 3rd, 7:30-9:30 pm in Manhattan (location provided upon registration):
Session I – Flirting 101 – How to Charm Your Way to Love and Relationship with Robyn Vogel
We all know her – the woman that walks into a room, breezes across the dance floor, effortlessly attracting everyone’s attention. She may not even be the prettiest or the smartest woman in the crowd. What’s her secret? She’s an excellent flirt with the right attitude and the ability to make others feel good. This part of the workshop, you teach you:
1. What flirting is (and isn’t!)
2. How to have the right attitude – The Flirting Attitude
3. 3 most effective ways to flirt your way to connection
Robyn Vogel, MA, LMHC is a psychotherapist and an expert at flirting! She loves love and has been helping women fall in love with themselves and others for the past 19 years! The butterflies in the stomach at first attraction, the intense joy of mutual expression and the depth of human emotion – all fuel her passion to assist others in creating the relationships they desire. In 2009, Robyn launched a new phase of her Boston-based psychotherapy practice, Flirting With Heart. She is successful at helping others build confidence, become naturally flirtatious and attract the right person to them. More information can be found at www.RobynVogel.com.
Session II – Become a Successful, Smart, Single Woman: Overcome the 3 most common mistakes you can make! with Lois Barth
In romance as in life, it’s not what you know you don’t know that stops you, it’s what you don’t know that you don’t know that does! In this entertaining and upbeat interactive program, we will explore the 3 most important power principles that will shift you to being a successful, smart and savvy single.
You will learn the following:
1. The mistake and mystique of “chemistry.” How to decipher between chaos vs. connection
2. How clarifying your requirements, needs and wants are in a relationship versus a partnership, and how that makes all the difference.
3. Creating a luscious life, as a path for luscious life partnership.
Lois Barth is an empowerment and relationship coach and speaker. She speaks to individuals and groups in NYC and around the country on how to live powerfully and playfully, both personally and professionally. The very same process she went through intuitively to meet her life partner paralleled the process she later got trained in as a certified relationship coach, which has supported countless women as well as herself, to move from loony lessons in love to luscious life partnerships. She was the life coach, creator, and source expert for two makeover campaigns for SELF and FITNESS magazine as well as being a source expert for ALL YOU Magazine, MSN.com, WomansDay.com, and many relationship sites. She heads up the relationship department for Female Think, an on-line learning community for women. www.lusciouslivingwithlois.com
Session III – If He’s Not the One, Who Is? with Lisa Steadman
If you knew Mr. Right was out there, and he was doing everything possible to meet you, wouldn’t you do everything possible to meet him FASTER? If one of your New Year’s Resolutions was to find love (or at least go on a date this year!), then you must first ask yourself these three important questions:
1. What or who from your past is keeping you from calling in the love you deserve?
2. Deep down, do you BELIEVE you deserve the kind of juicy, blissful love you desire?
3. Do you know the difference between dating disappointment and heartbreak?
With Lisa’s expert guidance, you’ll experience her 3 step process that will help you release the past and step into empowered action.
Lisa Steadman is an internationally acclaimed relationship journalist, relationship coach, best-selling author, sought-after speaker, and CEO of Woohoo, Inc. Women around the world have been able to heal the pain of past relationships and step into their brilliant futures with guidance from Lisa’s books, as well as the information she shares through her blog, YouTube Channel, newsletters, social media, and her many TV and radio appearances, which include The Today Show, The Tyra Banks Show, Playboy Radio, and New Zealand’s Good Morning. She has also contributed relationship advice to eHarmony.com, Yahoo!Dating.com, iVillage.com, Tango.com, the Huffington Post, and missmatchmaker.net.
Breakup Rx/Movin’ On Tips @ SingleEdition.com
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on - 7:15 am
I was recently interviewed on SingleEdition.com.
In the interview, I dished on the 3 most important survival strategies women must follow after a breakup, if you can stay friends with your ex, and how to let go of all that post-breakup Boohoo and celebrate the Woohoo Within.
I also talked about the value of discovering your own resilience.
Here’s a snippet of the interview:
Q: What are 3 warning signs that a relationship is doomed from the start?
When there’s everyday drama, when you can’t openly and easily communicate, when you’re not equally invested in the relationship.
Q: Do you think women and men can/should be friends after a break up? Why or why not?
Men seem to be able to stay friends and still heal their hearts and date other people. Women can’t. We’re not wired that way. Our heart stays connected and that means we aren’t moving on. Bad news for us when we realize we’ve been holding out hope of reconciling and he’s already in a new relationship. Ouch!
Click here to read the full article.
What’s YOUR Woohoo Within?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 28, 2010 - 7:15 am
A few weeks ago, I was speaking at a women’s group, sharing what I do , and something just fell out of my mouth.
“I help women discover The Woohoo Within.“
There was a collective gasp in the room, and I noticed the look of sheer joy that came over so many women’s faces.
I’d never actually described what I do this way, but more and more, I’m discovering that it’s no accident my company is called Woohoo, Inc.
And it’s no accident that my clients not only break free of past dating drama and disappointment when they work with me, but they also awaken to their own brilliant intuition, launch businesses, and change EVERY area of their lives that aren’t working.
While I’d never had a name for this extraordinary coaching result, that night, I gave birth to my 2010 vision for ALL my coaching clients.
Together, we’re discovering and celebrating The Woohoo Within.
LOVE THAT!
I’d actually love to know about YOUR Woohoo Within. But more on that later.
First, I want to thank YOU for my recent Woohoo!
Last week’s book launch was AMAZING!
Thanks to all of you who bought If He’s Not The One, Who Is? What went wrong and what it takes to find Mr. Right, got those INCREDIBLE bonuses worth over $2,500, and joined my FREE Ask Lisa Call on Thursday. I appreciate your participation TREMENDOUSLY! I couldn’t have done it without you.
If you missed my FREE call on Thursday with datingwithdignity.com’s Marni Battista, here’s the replay:
http://datingwithdignity.com/dl/asklisasteadman/marni-battista-dating-with-dignity-ask-lisa-steadman-teleseminar-011410.html
On the call, I answered YOUR questions about letting go of Mr. Wrong, creating a new vision of love, and how to manifest Mr. Right.
And…I wrote a big fat check for Haiti relief tonight, based on how many books were bought during my launch. I LOVE giving back and making a difference, so that felt AMAZING!
Over the weekend, the Woohoo! continued with my official book launch party in Los Angeles. Over 60 incredible guests made the trek to Tantra Sunset, a deliciously swanky Indian restaurant in my bohemian Silverlake neighborhood. My fellow love experts Cherry Norris, The Hollywood Dating Director and Keri Newell of CantDateWithoutit.com were there. So was www.single-woman.tv’s Kim Kuhteubl, Sierra Sullivan of The Ray Magazine, and my video producer Robyn Carter. PLUS, my wonderful friends, clients, Facebook fans, and more!
You can check out photos from the AMAZING event on my Facebook Fan page here:
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=141832&id=119207712806
So what’s YOUR Woohoo Within?
I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!
Specifically, I want to know:
1. What are your goals for 2010?
2. How are you making space for change, growth, transformation?
3. How are you letting go of old stories and rewriting them?
I can’t wait to hear from you.
Here’s to your Woohoo Within!
Why a Love Doctor Can Help You Get Hitched
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 27, 2010 - 7:15 am
My friend Sherri Langburt of SingleEdition.com recently wrote an article on the pros of hiring a love doctor or coach. She was gracious enough to include me in her article. Check it out…
We see doctors for health checkups and accountants to help us get our finances in order. There are also those of us who may even have regular sessions with a fitness instructor, therapist or career coach. Yet somehow, when it comes to matters of the heart, we neglect to get treatment.
While dating may come naturally to some people, there comes a time in every persons’ life when they can use a little refresher, learn new tactics or improve on old ones, and even benefit from a little support to get through a breakup, drought or the emotional vicissitudes one must deal with as they search for Mr. or Ms. Right.
Just take Jake Pavelka, “The Bachelor” du jour who claimed in episode one of this season’s show (subtitled: “Wings of Love” for this series) that, “he had hundreds of first dates but never any second ones.” Were it not for 25 women and a television deal with ABC setting him on a course of scenic dates and courting that leads to the altar, I am willing to wager that Pavelka would have been a prime candidate for a real-life dating coach to help him figure out why he could not land any follow-up dates. In fact, depending how things turn out for the flying ace with the fab abs, the jury may still be out on the matter.
Though help is out there, many singles still balk at the thought of investing in a dating coach, and as a result may date with blinders on. That’s why, “people must learn accountability, action and consistency,” according to Lisa Steadman, author of It’s a Breakup Not a Breakdown. She offers that “a good dating coach will hold a vision for your long and short-term goals, help you see where you might be sabotaging your chances of success and co-create a plan to experience those goals.”
NYC Event: How to Live, Love, and Flirt with Heart
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 26, 2010 - 7:15 am
Imagine for a moment that it’s six months from today, and you’ve met the most wonderful man in the whole world. You have finally met your match, your life partner, your soul mate. When your eyes meet there’s a “yes!” that tells you this is the one you’ve been waiting for. You feel a deep connection, a strong attraction, and are ready to open your heart.
Is this what you want to create in your life? Is this what you have been waiting for?
If so, you’ve come to the right place!
I’m THRILLED to announce that I’m joining forces with Lois Barth and Robyn Vogel in an experiential workshop on February 3. We’ll send you home with the power tools you need to manifest the relationship of your dreams.
Join other women, like you, who intend to have the best year of their lives in 2010.
Here are the event details:
Wednesday, February 3 @ 6:30pm
Address:
520 8th Ave (between 36/37th St.) 10th floor, #10A
Details of the event include:
Session I -Flirting 101 – How to Charm Your Way to Love and Relationship with Robyn Vogel
We all know her – the woman that walks into a room, breezes across the dance floor, effortlessly attracting everyone’s attention. She may not even be the prettiest or the smartest woman in the crowd. What’s her secret? She’s an excellent flirt with the right attitude and the ability to make others feel good. This part of the workshop, you teach you:
1. What flirting is (and isn’t!)
2. How to have the right attitude – The Flirting Attitude
3. 3 most effective ways to flirt your way to connection
Robyn Vogel, MA, LMHC is a psychotherapist and an expert at flirting! She loves love and has been helping women fall in love with themselves and others for the past 19 years! The butterflies in the stomach at first attraction, the intense joy of mutual expression and the depth of human emotion – all fuel her passion to assist others in creating the relationships they desire. In 2009, Robyn launched a new phase of her Boston-based psychotherapy practice, Flirting With Heart. She is successful at helping others build confidence, become naturally flirtatious and attract the right person to them. More information can be found at www.RobynVogel.com.
Session II – Become a Successful, Smart, Single Woman: Overcome the 3 most common mistakes you can make! with Lois Barth
Lois’ portion of the evening will assist you in:
1. Unraveling the great mystery of “chemistry,” separating chaos from true connection
2. Clarifying your requirements, needs and wants are in a relationship VS. a partnership, and how that makes all the difference.
3. Creating a luscious life, so that you are better able to attract luscious life partnership into your life.
Lois Barth is an empowerment and relationship coach and speaker and owner of “Luscious Living with Lois, Coaching and Consulting Services.” In addition to having a private practice in coaching women (and a few good men) to create luscious lifestyles, livelihoods and life partnerships, she speaks to groups around the country on how to live powerfully and playfully, both personally and professionally. Being a poster gal for “Don’t give up 5 minutes before the relationship miracle,” she parlayed her disastrous dating and relationship history into her one woman show, “1001 Dates from Hell…And the Woman Who Lived Through Them,” which uses dating and relationships as an arena for laughter, learning and healing. The very same process she went through intuitively, paralleled the process she later got trained in as a certified relationship coach, which has supported countless women as well as herself, to move from loony lessons in love to luscious life partnerships. She was the life coach, creator, and source expert for two makeover campaigns for SELF and FITNESS magazine as well as being a source expert for ALL YOU Magazine, MSN.com, WomansDay.com, and many relationship sites. She heads up the relationship department for Female Think, an on-line learning community for women.
Session III - If He’s Not the One, Who Is? with Lisa Steadman
If you knew Mr. Right was out there, and he was doing everything possible to meet you, wouldn’t you do everything possible to meet him FASTER? If one of your New Year’s Resolutions was to find love (or at least go on a date this year!), then you must first ask yourself these three important questions:
1. What or who from your past is keeping you from calling in the love you deserve?
2. Deep down, do you BELIEVE you deserve the kind of juicy, blissful love you desire?
3. Do you know the difference between dating disappointment and heartbreak?
With Lisa’s expert guidance, you’ll experience her 3 step process that will help you release the past and step into empowered action.
Lisa Steadman is an internationally acclaimed relationship journalist, relationship coach, best-selling author, sought-after speaker, and CEO of Woohoo, Inc. Women around the world have been able to heal the pain of past relationships and step into their brilliant futures with guidance from Lisa’s books, as well as the information she shares through her blog, YouTube Channel, newsletters, social media, and her many TV and radio appearances, which include The Today Show, The Tyra Banks Show, Playboy Radio, and New Zealand’s Good Morning. She has also contributed relationship advice to eHarmony.com, Yahoo!Dating.com, iVillage.com, Tango.com, the Huffington Post, and missmatchmaker.net.
Hurry – space is filling up FAST! If you’re in New York, I want to meet you. To secure your spot — AND BRING A FRIEND FOR FREE — email me ASAP @ lisa@lisasteadman.com. I will then send you a Paypal link.
Meet me in the Caribean for the Life Makeover Cruise!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 25, 2010 - 7:15 am
OK, I admit it. I’m a weather wuss. That’s why I live in Southern California. Because the sun shines 90% of the time. The weather is beautiful. And I don’t have to negotiate snowy roads, layers of clothing, and the pipes freezing.
Having said that, Southern California’s been hit by a MASSIVE storm! My house is leaking. My parents’ house is leaking. And freeways are allegedly flooding.
So right about now, I’m dreaming of a warm breeze, the sun on my face, the ocean lapping against the shore, and a whole lotta fun…
And that’s EXACTLY what’s going to happen on the Life Makeover Cruise for Women that I’m a featured speaker on this spring! (April 18-25)
I’m going. The Hubs is going. My clients are going!
ARE YOU GOING?
If you’re like me, dreaming of warmer weather, a little R & R, AND the chance to discover The Woohoo Within that I talked abour earlier this week, then I want to meet YOU in the Caribbean!
Here’s the scoop. I’ll be giving daily workshops on topics like “The Woohoo Within,” “Bad Love No More,” and, of course, “How to Let go of Mr. Wrong and Find Mr. Right.”
My fellow lifestyle and love experts Kira Sabin and Robert Mack will be giving workshops, too.
And not just workshops. We’re offering private coaching, interactive exercises, cocktail parties, mixers, and more!
If you’ve ever thought you MIGHT want to work with me but can’t afford it, now’s your chance to spend 7 days sailing the Caribbean with me! All you have to pay for is the cruise and airfare.
My services on the ship are included!
Now, my 2010 Woohoo Crew clients have first dibs on my time outside of the workshops. But if you’re one of the first five women to book your cruise by Friday, I’ll gift you a private session on the ship. We can spend an hour together in the comfort of a deck chair overlooking the pool or in a more private setting. You decide!
So, if you’re fighting the winter weather blues, come join me this April in luxury, relaxation, and bliss!
Want more cruise deets? Here’s the skinny…
About Life Makeover Caribbean Cruise for Women
Would your life improve with a little makeover?
STI and The Dating Makeover Coach LLC are bringing you a fresh new experience, one that is going to help you stop waiting and start living and loving your life in a whole new fashion!! Create the life and relationship you want. Travel through the Caribbean on the gorgeous Celebrity Solstice and create a brand new you in the process, too. Unpack your baggage, dive deep into a happier, more loving, fulfilling life, and get a makeover all at once!
With the help of our celebrity experts, you will be a part of a slew of incredible workshops and interactive seminars that will help you discover who you are, make you who you want to be, and attract the kind of wonderful people you want to meet. You will leave inspired, refreshed, and, of course, tan!
Hurry! Book your cruise today!
See you in the Caribbean!
My 3 Part Teleseries starts Tuesday!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 22, 2010 - 7:15 am
I’m about to hop on a plane to San Francisco to attend an amazing weekend retreat with two incredible men, Dr. Kirk Prine and Donny Lobree.
These gentle men are true geniuses at helping individuals release old dysfunctional self stories and create beautiful new ones. I can’t WAIT to share what I learn this weekend with you next week!
Speaking of re-writing stories, I’m often asked how I met my husband.
My clients, friends, and people I meet online often approach me and want to know how I TRULY transformed from the broken down, disappointed, and hopeless woman I was after my Big Breakup six years ago to the empowered, enlightened, joy-filled woman I am today.
Specifically, they want to know what I did to manifest my husband!
And while sometimes I think these women would like to believe I have some complicated equation or that I’m just plain lucky, neither one is true.
And the truth is quite simple.
I met my husband after I connected to my Woohoo Within.
After months of self pity, negative self talk, and general Lisa bashing after my Big Breakup, I got fed up with, well, ME!
And once I decided to STOP the insanity, a.k.a. treating myself like garbage, telling myself I was a loser at love, and spiritually slaughtering myself, THINGS CHANGED.
They changed because I let go of my story.
I stepped out of the belief that I was hopeless when it came to relationships.
I let go of the idea that I was somehow too screwed up and unlovable for love.
And I released my belief that love was painful, hard, unfulfilling, and not worth the risk.
When I let go of all that, my WORLD changed.
I started liking myself.
I even started LOVING myself!
And I fell madly in love with my life.
It had nothing to do with a man. While I was dating a lot, I wasn’t defining my new self by what a man thought of me.
I was defining myself by what I thought of me!
What a refreshing change of pace!
Instead of believing that some man might think I was ugly, fat, unlovable, screwed up, or weird, I loved myself for being smart, funny, unconventional, creative, ambitous, and unique.
Once I started loving me for me, everyone around me did, too! Men flocked to me like crazy. (It was fun!)
All because I changed my story and celebrated the Woohoo Within.
And I’m not the only one loving myself and my life right now. One of my Woohoo Crew clients just emailed me HER Woohoo Within. Check it out…
“My personal Woohoo Within would have to be the new level of self awareness that I’ve developed. I believe I’m finally connecting with my real self, i.e., the observer of my thoughts. Previously, it was like this part of me, a very critical part of me, had been locked away for years while shy, insecure ME and my ragtag collection of limiting beliefs ran the show. I’ve been thinking about it and it’s like my sense of self preservation at a young age decided that this was how to protect myself from being hurt. I let fear rule. Well, I’m happy to say I feel like a completely different person. I love, respect and trust myself. I’m a pretty cool chick! People always told me how smart, funny, strong and even beautiful I am and I’m finally starting to believe it. My self confidence is starting to soar. It may sound a bit nutty, but that would have to be my Woohoo Within. Thank you, thank you!”
You’re welcome! 
And what a difference a few months makes!
When my client first signed up for my 8 Week If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Teleclass in October, she wasn’t feeling so happy and healthy. In fact, she was pretty down on herself.
- She believed she was a failure at love.
- That time had run out on her chance to get love right.
- And that she may be doomed to end up miserable and alone.
She’s not feeling that way anymore!
And it’s because of the Woohoo Within.
Love that!
Now, I’ll be honest with you…
Had I met my husband any sooner, he wouldn’t have given me the time of day.
He would have seen the sad, lost, unhappy young woman I was and thought, No thanks!
But because we met when I was fully connected to my Woohoo Within, he saw the REAL ME. And he liked what he saw from the very first moment!
He liked me so much that he called me the day after we met to make our first official date.
He now says he wasn’t willing to risk losing me to someone else who might come along and discover my fabulous self.
I’m so glad he didn’t waste any time pursuing me. He’s my absolute gift and best friend!
The reason I share this story with you is simple.
You can learn all you want about where to meet men, what to say, and how to flirt. But if you don’t first make peace with yourself, embrace your Woohoo Within, and fall madly in love with Y-O-U, no healthy and happy man you meet will recognize your fabulousness, ask for your number, and call you the very next day.
It’s that simple.
So rather than waste any more time online dating while feeling kinda crappy, or saying yes to some guy because you’re afraid no one else will come along…
What if you FULLY embraced YOUR Woohoo Within?
Your first step is simple. <b>Sign up for my FREE 3 Part If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Teleseries, starting next Tuesday night.</b> We’ll spend the next 3 weeks learning how your past is holding you back, how your beliefs keep you stuck, and how to CATAPULT your self love in record time. Soon enough, you’ll be writing to me about YOUR Woohoo Within. And I can’t wait to hear it!
Sign up for my FREE 3 Part If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Teleseries NOW:
http://lisasteadman.com/if-hes-not-the-one-who-is-3-part-teleseries
Just Added: A BONUS Valentine’s Day call on February 14! That’s 4 calls with me for FREE!
I can’t wait to speak with you next week!
Have a wonderful weekend. Be sure to enjoy a little Woohoo!
Want Love? Define what it REALLY looks and feels like
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 15, 2010 - 7:00 am
Think you know what you want in love and in a man?
Think again.
If your list is a mile long and includes superficial wants like “must be 6 feet tall” or “must make 7 figures” then you may need to revisit your list.
It’s time to get soulful with your list.
What do you need from a partner?
How do you want love to feel?
How will this perfect love support you and make you a better woman?
What goals and values MUST you and Mr. Right share?
I always tell my clients to get specific. The more specific the better. That way, when Mr. Right shows up and he’s shorter, nicer, less flashy, or more conservative than you had imagined, you’ll give him a shot because of how he makes you FEEL.
Love never shows up exactly how we imagine or when we want it to.
But it does show up when we’re ready, can recognize it, and when we make room to cherish and celebrate it, quirks and all.
For added support, get a copy of your brand new manifesta, my book If He’s Not The One, Who Is? What went wrong and what it takes to find Mr. Right on Amazon or in bookstores.
And leave a comment here or on my Facebook Fan Page to let me know how you’re redefining love.
Do you know the difference between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, & Mr. Right?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 14, 2010 - 7:00 am
Be honest. If Mr. Right showed up on your doorstep today, would you recognize him?
Or would you think he was a stalker, call 911, and have him arrested?
The truth is, most single women don’t know how to distinguish between Mr. Wrong, Mr. Next, and Mr. Right.
They waste valuable time in relationship with Mr. Wrong.
They desperately try to make things work with Mr. Next.
And they don’t even know what Mr. Right looks or feels like! Oftentimes, they scare potential Mr. Rights away without even knowing it!
So much wasted time and energy can be avoided when you step into the drivers’ seat, become The Chooser, and take conscious steps to manifest Mr. Right.
What are these conscious steps? They vary depending on the individual, and may include:
- Breaking free of old patterns and self sabotage
- Understanding why the type of man you’re attracted to/attracting doesn’t work
- Deciding to let love in instead of running and hiding
- Much more
For added support, get a copy of your brand new manifesta, my book If He’s Not The One, Who Is? What went wrong and what it takes to find Mr. Right on Amazon or in bookstores.
And leave a comment here or on my Facebook Fan Page to let me know how you’re consciously choosing Mr. Nexts to find Mr. Right.
Want to meet Mr. Right? Shake up your routine!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on January 13, 2010 - 7:00 am
If you want 2010 to be the year you manifest Mr. Right, then you owe it to your success to get out of your own way and shake up your routine.
How?
Identify 3-5 ideal target rich environments where you’re likely to meet men you’re interested in. (If you haven’t already, get specific about the kind of man you want to meet by making lists of your wants, needs, and requirements.)
Next, put yourself in these target rich environments regularly.
AND start talking to men on a daily basis – wherever you go!
By stepping out of scarcity thinking, you step into a space of abundance, which allows you to see that men really are EVERYWHERE!
Not all of them will be interested and available.
You won’t be into all of them either.
That’s not the point.
The goal is to get into the habit of striking up conversations with men when you’re out and about. This allows you to get more comfortable talking to the opposite sex so that when you meet someone truly amazing, you’re not tongue tied or scarcity-minded.
What to say to these men? It’s not rocket science. Just strike up a conversation, like…
“Who’s winning?” (If you’re at a sports bar and there’s a game on.)
“Nice shoes.”
“What time is it?”
“How’s your day going?”
There may be times where men look at you like you’re crazy. Don’t get discouraged.
Remember, practice makes perfect so HAVE FUN practicing!
For added support, get a copy of your brand new manifesta, my book If He’s Not The One, Who Is? What went wrong and what it takes to find Mr. Right on Amazon or in bookstores.
And leave a comment here or on my Facebook Fan Page to let me know how you’re shaking up your routine!
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