Get Your Holiday Style On: Make yourself touchable!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 22, 2009 - 8:00 am
Calling all savvy single ladies! Want to magnetize men to you?
Start by making yourself look more touchable! And that’s not all…
Did you know that what you wear underneath your wardrobe changes the way you move/the way you feel/the way you present yourself to men?
Recently, I grabbed my video camera and tripod, and enlisted the expertise of personal image consultant Kim Seltzer of http://eliteimagemakeovers.com/.
Here’s what I love about Kim. She’s not just a guru when it comes to what to wear. She’s also a relationship expert. Love that! So she knows not only what you should wear on dates, but how to score second dates. Woohoo!
Kim revealed five valuable tips for how you can look your best, feel your best, and rock all those holiday parties.
Here’s tip #2:
Get Your Holiday Style On: How to turn heads, magnetize men, and have fun this holiday season
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 21, 2009 - 8:00 am
Calling all savvy single ladies! Want to know how to rock your look this holiday season?
Ready to channel your inner diva, make your entrance, and become a man magnet at all those holiday parties?
Recently, I grabbed my video camera and tripod, and enlisted the expertise of personal image consultant Kim Seltzer of http://eliteimagemakeovers.com/.
Here’s what I love about Kim. She’s not just a guru when it comes to what to wear. She’s also a relationship expert. Love that! So she knows not only what you should wear on dates, but how to score second dates. Woohoo!
Kim revealed five valuable tips for how you can look your best, feel your best, and rock all those holiday parties.
Here’s tip #1:
Done with dating drama, disappointment, and disaster? In 2010, get the help you DESERVE to call in Mr. Right!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 16, 2009 - 2:06 am
I recently worked with an amazing film crew and some of my phenomenal clients to share my message of how working with me can dramatically change the results you’re getting in life and love. I’m THRILLED with the results and happy to share it with you now.
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Here’s what YOU’LL discover when you join my next transformative If He’s Not The One, Who Is? 8 Week TeleClass, starting in February:
* How your relationship past defines your love future — and what to do about it
* What your subconscious mind really believes that is sabotaging your genuine desire for love
* The unhealthy dating and relationship traps, tricks, and blatant lies that are messing with your head
* How to stop attracting jerks, losers, and/or emotionally unavailable men
* How to identify the damaging dating personas you fall prey to, and what you need to do to break free of them — forever
* How to step out of scarcity thinking and into abundance dating
* How to stop getting sidelined unnecessarily by dating disappointment (it’s NOT the same as heartbreak!)
* What the perfect target rich environments are for you — and what to do about them!
* How to tell the difference between Mr. Next and Mr. Right
And here’s my recent class graduates have to say about what they gained from the program:
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“Lisa has helped me through a breakup, and now she’s shown me the way to new relationships. I always learn something new when I interact with Lisa and value our work together so much. While I used to beat myself off for having “stayed too long,” on the other hand that path led me to Lisa, and that keeps opening me up to new paths and avenues in life. Thanks!”
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Have you been “Turkey Dropped”?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 1, 2009 - 11:27 am
I just read this on npr.org. Click here to listen to the audio story on All Things Considered. And yes, I subscribe to kcrw, so I’m sure they don’t mind me re-purposing their material…
It’s not just turkeys that get nervous this time of year. Chances are high that a failing relationship will also meet its end during the holidays. That’s because it’s not just turkey season — it’s turkey drop season.
“The turkey drop is that holiday breakup season where all the college students return home for their first major vacation, and everyone breaks up,” Washington University junior Carly MacLeod tells guest host Robert Smith. She writes the romance column for the student newspaper.
It’s often freshmen who do the majority of the turkey dropping, MacLeod says. After three months living apart and making new friends, high school sweethearts reunite to find their long-distance relationship is more burden than they want. Upcoming finals add to the emotional stress. “Go home, hook up and break up is pretty much the pattern,” MacLeod says.
You’re not safe from the turkey drop if you’re out of college, either, according to relationship and sex advice guru Dan Savage. “For grown-ups,” he says, “it’s the anticipation of being stuck for three or four more months.
“You’re a cad if you break up around Christmas. And then there’s New Year’s — and you can’t dump somebody right around New Year’s. After that, if you don’t jump on it, is Valentine’s Day,” Savage says. “God forbid if their birthday should fall somewhere between November and February — then you’re really stuck.
“Thanksgiving is really when you have to pull the trigger if you’re not willing to tough it out through February.”
Both Savage and MacLeod speak from experience. MacLeod was turkey dropped her first year in college, by a boyfriend who told her the distance was too hard to handle. “He was still a senior in high school,” she says. “That one hurt even a little bit more than, I think, a regular breakup.”
Savage doesn’t have any advice to share from his breakup. “I’m actually bad at the turkey drop,” he says. “I had a turkey drop that was coming, and I fled the state.”
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