Want your Ex Back?

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 10, 2009 - 7:00 am

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Be honest…

As the holidays approach are you:

– Thinking about going back to your ex?

– Considering forgiving past betrayals, past lies, past deceits, past disappointments, past cheating, because you are afraid of being single and alone?

Don’t do it!

Just because you’re alone doesn’t mean you will be alone forever.

Don’t be fooled into thinking you have to accept less than you deserve from someone in your past because your future relationship hasn’t showed up yet. When someone lies or betrays you, they are showing you a lack of character and also a lack of love and respect for you.

So rather than forgive them and continue moving into a relationship with them, take a step back and ask yourself what you truly deserve.

You don’t have to make it work with somebody because you have a history together.

You also don’t have to make it work with somebody because they were the love of your life.

Sometimes relationships end. Give yourself permission to walk away and move on. You can heal your heart by the holidays but you must stop going backwards. You must stop reconnecting to your ex. Instead, you must do something different to get a different result.

Starting today!

If you need help, pick up a copy of It’s A Breakup, Not a Breakdown http://www.amazon.com/Its-Breakup-Not-Breakdown-change/dp/1598691724/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1258008746&sr=8-1 or the 21 day workbook, http://www.amazon.com/Its-Breakup-Not-Breakdown-change/dp/1598691724/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1258008746&sr=8-1

And if you have questions, email ask@lisasteadman.com