Ready to call in The One? Join my FREE call!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 29, 2009 - 12:00 am
Then you won’t want to miss my FREE call where I reveal 5 simple secrets that’ll change EVERYTHING when it comes to your love life…
EVEN if your subsconscious is telling you these secrets won’t work for you, that they’re only for smarter, prettier, younger women, I encourage you to join the call anyway.
In fact, one of the secrets I’ll reveal has to do with how your subconscious is sabotaging your chances of success.
Before you let her win, stop. Take a deep breath.
And trust that there’s a better way to call in Mr. Right, starting this holiday season!
Join my FREE call on Tuesday, December 1 @ 6pm Pacific where I’ll reveal 5 simple secrets that’ll change EVERYTHING when it comes to your love life.
These secrets are so profound that when I implemented them, I met my husband within 2 months!
Now, I’m not promising you’ll get the same instant results, but now that you know how easy and powerful these secret strategies are, why not implement them THIS WEEK?
Enter your name and email address below to get the call details delivered to your email inbox.
And to ask me your question right now, email ask@lisasteadman.com.
“If He’s Not The One, WHO Is??”
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 25, 2009 - 10:03 am
I’m single. Again. I’m 32 and single again.
There, I’d confessed my darkest sins.
Wait.
I’m 32 and single again and I feel like a total failure at love.
That was the tough love truth. And it stung. The year was 2003. And while my best friends were all settled or settling down with their annoyingly adorable husbands, I was nowhere near the road to happily ever after.
Was that even what I wanted anymore? Truthfully, I didn’t know. What I did know was that while I was no longer in survival mode from my Big Breakup with Mr. Ex, a journey I later chronicled online and in my first book It’s A Breakup, Not A Breakdown, I wasn’t exactly sure where this new destination was. Mr. Wrong was gone. So was the soul crushing agony of getting over him. Somewhere between our last booty call and deleting his number from my cell phone, I was single again.
Did I feel footloose and fancy free? Sure. But with that newfound freedom came some harsh realities. Without my breakup pain to keep me company, I felt a little lost. Empty. Alone. I actually missed missing my ex.
And that’s not all.
If I was completely honest with myself, I was starting to feel like a failure at love. After all, the Big Breakup wasn’t my first breakup. It was but one of many disastrous relationships throughout my 20s and early thirties that seemed like my very own reality show aptly titled, “Loser At Love…Again!” And, as if on cue, at 32 I was starting over. Yet again.
I was living alone. Again.
I was minus a Plus One at parties. Again.
I was faced with the disappointment that Mr. Wrong was not The One. Again.
That’s when the big fat fabulous truth smacked me upside my single and fabulous head.
I was free to reinvent myself. That’s when the fun really began.
When I gave myself permission to let go of any stigma I felt about being the token single girl at parties…
When I embraced the idea that my happily ever after journey might not involve a ring, a ceremony and reception, and/or the pitter patter of little feet (other than my two cats)…
When I woke up to the beautiful truth that because I was single I could be selfishly indulgent, quitting my job, changing careers, and ultimately pursuing the life I’d always dreamed of, I realized that not only was I 32 and single — again — but I was also ready to rock my fabulous single life, BIG TIME.
I, Lisa Steadman, would date lots of wildly exciting and different men (and I did).
I, Lisa Steadman, would live my life according to my own ever-evolving rule book (sometimes casting aside the rules altogether).
I, Lisa Steadman, would take risks, ask for what I wanted, and trust that the universe would take care of me (99% of the time, it did).
And…
I, Lisa Steadman, would never, ever put myself in the position of crying over the wrong guy again (and I didn’t).
Eventually, I did meet an exceptionally exciting and annoyingly adorable man. And while my happily ever after journey evolved to include a sassy strut down the aisle, I did it on my own terms.
I provided my own engagement and wedding rings (family heirlooms that I cherished).
I kept my name (if it ain’t broke, why fix it?).
And the bride wore red (I looked FABULOUS!).
As for the pitter patter of little feet, well, that hasn’t changed. In our household, our two cats still hold court, but who knows?
What I DO know is that if you’re somewhere between the pain of the past and your happily ever after future, and you’re single — again or for the very first time – your chance to find and enjoy your happily ever after has not passed you by. In fact, you’re right on time. Along the way, you’ll discover some great inner truths…
Maybe you’ll decide to be single and fabulous forever.
Maybe you, too, will date wildly exciting and different men until you find your perfect partner (a.k.a. Mr. Right).
Maybe one day you’ll strut your sassy stuff down the aisle, say “I do,” and enjoy the pitter patter of little feet.
Regardless of the end destination, today’s the day to start rocking your new single and fabulous journey. First, you’re going to break free of whatever’s holding you back (or whatever you’re holding onto from your past). Then, you’ll wake up to what’s possible now that Mr. Wrong is gone. From reinventing your savvy single life to letting go of old patterns and behaviors that may be sabotaging your relationship success to understanding the boys to avoid on the dating scene, you’re going to master the art of not only waking up to your new and improved life, but moving on to your revised happily ever after destination. Along the way, you’re going to meet a variety of interesting and available Mr. Nexts, but you’re not going to foolishly give your heart away to just anyone. Instead, you’re going to apply your valuable lessons learned, and in time manifest Mr. Right. Then and only then will you hand over the keys to your healed heart and say “Yes!” to the fantastic future that awaits.
As you move into your fab future, you’re not so much on a quest to answer “Who’s next?” (although you may discover that along the way). You’re actually stepping into a beautifully life shifting journey towards the revelation of “What’s next?”
How fabulous is that?!
(Excerpted from Lisa Steadman’s If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right — available January 18, 2010.)
The Savvy Single’s Must-Have Holiday Wish List
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on - 7:00 am
Calling all savvy single ladies! Have you made your list and checked it twice? There’s no doubt you’ve been both naughty and nice this year, so to help round out your holiday wish list the following are five must-have items for the coming year…
For your naughty side…
Whether you’re flying solo these days and need a toy of your very own, or are looking to spice up your sex life with the man in your boudoir, you’ll definitely find what you’re looking for at http://www.blissconnection.com/. And if you’ve got a group of girlfriends looking to spice things up this holiday season, why not have your very own Bliss Pleasure Party during the holidays?
For your celebratory side…
Suddenly single? Recently recycled? Or just looking to show your single gal spirit? Pick up a flirty tee for you or your dog @ singletease.com. From single gal tees with sayings like just ask me (out), support your local library (check me out), and looking for good pick-up lines to adorable tees for your pup with sayings like say hello (we don’t bite), paws-tively single, don’t make me beg (for your #), and pet me (if you’re single), you’ll be flirting and meeting men in no time!
For your dating side…
Looking to rev up your relationship goals in 2009? Why not enlist the help of a dating coach? Join my upcoming 8 Week If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Teleclass, starting in February. When you sign up in 2009, you get a 35% discount AND a free session with me to kick start your journey!
For your pampered side…
Between all those holiday parties, the shopping for gifts, and spending time with family, it’s easy to get overloaded. Be sure to take some time this holiday season just for you. Whether you sneak off for a quick mani-pedi session with your girlfriends, get a relaxing massage at a spa, or splurge on my fave product line of sugar scrubs, lotions, candles, and potions @ Klean Bath & Body, how you pamper yourself is not important. What’s important is that you give yourself the gift of some much needed M-E time this holiday season.
As for that sexy beefcake, hottie hipster, or naughty nerd in disguise who’s on your list, well that part’s up to you. But if you arm yourself with the proper single gal tools, the above items included, you may just snag yourself someone special next year. And in the meantime, celebrate being single. It’s a gift this holiday season so make the most of it!
How to spend 6 weeks with me in 2009, and 8 weeks with me in 2010 for 1/5 the price!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 23, 2009 - 12:56 pm
Last week, I gave a FREE call where I shared five valuable tips for beating the holiday blues and celebrating your single self this holiday season.
Were you on the call?
If not, WHY?
I’ve heard from so many of you who have called, emailed, and IM’d me on Facebook, all saying you’re having a tough time beating the holiday blues right now.
You’re feeling sorry for yourself that you didn’t meet the love of your life in 2009.
You’re over your ex, but you still find yourself obsessing about how they’re spending the holidays (and with who!).
You’re feeling completely behind schedule for the life, the love, and the family you really want.
I get it. And I want to support you through this challenging time.
I actually want you to have fun this holiday season!
That’s why I posted my 5 tips on my blog. You can actually implement all five starting today.
That means you can beat the holiday blues BEFORE you sit down to turkey dinner.
Woohoo!
Imagine spending the next six weeks feeling relaxed, confident, and filled with self love…
Imagine walking into all those holiday parties with a sassy spring in your step because you’re CELEBRATING your single self all season long…
Imagine how ATTRACTIVE you’ll be to all those single and available (and cute!) men when you feel absolutely fabulous about yourself this holiday season…
And imagine standing under the mistletoe with somebody who’s super cute and excited to kiss you!
This is absolutely, positively possible – THIS YEAR!
But you’ve got to break free of the blues you’re feeling and celebrate your most magnificent self.
You can get started today by implementing my five valuable tips.
And for five MORE valuable tips, join my FREE call (based on YOUR requests for more information!) on Tuesday, December 1.
Want hands-on help this holiday season?
(That’s me and some of my AMAZING clients!!!)
Spend the holidays with ME! Sign up for my Holiday Blues Buster package now to get hands on support this holiday season INCLUDING:
- SIX private 60 minute phone calls with me (I’m giving you my private number!)
- UNLIMITED email access (including weekends and holidays)
- Six weekly Sunday evening group chats online for added support
PLUS…
- FREE enrollment in my next 8 Week If He’s Not The One, Who Is? TeleClass, starting in February. (A $697 value PLUS $2,500 in FREE bonuses!)
– An advance autographed copy of my upcoming book If He’s Not The One, Who Is?: What Went Wrong – and What It Takes to Find Mr. Right, not available anywhere else until January 2010.
The value of my Holiday Blues Buster package is over $5,000.
Your investment?
$997.
Am I crazy?
No.
But I am committed to helping each and every one of you who wants to break free of the holiday blues and celebrate the season and YOURSELF.
Actually, that’s not entirely true.
While I want everyone to have a fabulous holiday season, I’m only offering 10 amazing individuals the opportunity to spend the holidays with me in my inner circle.
That’s because the work is so hands-on!
And 2 Holiday Blues Buster packages are already snapped up.
What are you waiting for??? Sign up NOW!
Check out this short video by my client Kerianne who was the first to sign up for my Holiday Blues Buster package after her first coaching session with me…
What are you waiting for???
Sign up for my Holiday Blues Buster package, spend the next six weeks with me, AND enjoy 8 weeks with me in 2010 in my next 8 Week If He’s Not The One, Who Is? TeleClass – ALL FOR JUST $997!
With all the bonuses you receive with this package, you’ll get $5,000 in value for just $997!
Just call me Mrs. Claus! 
But seriously, what are you waiting for? It’s never been (and never will be again) easier or more affordable to work with me both privately AND in a group.
I can’t wait to work with you. But hurry!
Single Again, Now What?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 20, 2009 - 8:54 am
After a breakup or divorce, starting over can be hard. Starting over when you’re the only single person you know can be even harder. You may start questioning your value, grow increasingly insecure, and/or obsess about if and when you’ll find your perfect partner. However, instead of stressing about being the only single in your social circle, celebrate it! The following tips will show you how.
Tip #1: Be your own arm candy
When you’re the only one single in your social circle, it’s all too easy to get down on yourself. Everyone else seems so happily hooked up that, especially when you’re going through a dating dry spell, you can start to feel isolated, alienated, and/or insecure. Sound familiar? If so, stop. Instead of dreading going solo to your next social outing while everyone else has a date, give yourself permission to be your own arm candy. Buy yourself a fab new outfit, slip into those sky high stilettos (or sexy sandals, bold boots, etc.), channel your inner diva, and make a confident entrance your friends will not soon forget. Not only that, but turn on the charm, practice a little harmless flirting, and in general be your most fabulous self. By letting go of any fears and/or insecurities you hold about being the only single person in the group, you allow yourself to enjoy the fun and freedom that goes along with being footloose and fancy free.
Tip #2: Celebrate being single
While it can sometimes feel like being single is a life sentence you’re forced to endure, it’s simply not true. In fact, being single is nothing more than a state of mind. So while you’re in the single stage of life, why not celebrate? Enjoy the freedom to come and go as you please, take pleasure in the endless dating possibilities by putting yourself in target rich environments on a regular basis, and give yourself permission to flirt with cute strangers as often as possible. By making the most of this extraordinary time in your life, you take the pressure off of when you’re going to find your perfect partner, and instead celebrate Y-O-U and the amazing life you already have.
Tip #3: Enlist your friends for help
Instead of looking at your circle of happily hooked up friends as a liability, consider them an asset. After all, your friends’ boyfriends and husbands probably know a single guy or two worth meeting. Why not enlist their help by asking about their single friends? If they seem uncomfortable, let them know that they don’t have to play Cupid. All you’re asking them to do is invite these friends to your next social gathering so that you can get to know one another in a casual group setting. No pressure. If your friends still seem unwilling to help, they may need to be reminded that being single has its challenges and if the tables were turned, you’d gladly help them. Chances are, they’ll be more than happy to lend a hand.
Tip #4: Widen your social circle
If you feel that being the only savvy single in your social circle is keeping you from meeting potential partners and/or in any way makes you feel bad about yourself, it may be time to widen your social network. Start by taking a look around your current network. There may be other fun and fab singles under your nose that you just haven’t noticed before. Maybe a friendly coworker, neighbor, or friend of a friend. If so, great! Invite them to do something social just the two of you in the near future. If it goes well, continue nurturing that relationship, and join forces to “get out there,” enjoying target rich environments on a regular basis together.
If on the other hand, you don’t know any other singles in your existing social network, do yourself a favor and widen your circle further. Look into singles groups, joined a networking organization, and/or take a class/pursue a passion where you’re likely to meet like-minded singles (not to mention potential dates). Stumped for ideas? Do something fun like enroll in a salsa/swing/line dancing class, take a gourmet cooking course, or participate in a foreign language conversation group. This is a great way to meet new people while doing something you enjoy anyway. Talk about a win-win!
There will be times when being the only single person in your social circle will feel incredibly stifling. But just as it’s important to enjoy this stage in life and broaden your network of friends, it’s equally important to practice patience. Being single isn’t something to suffer endlessly through. Instead, with a slight attitude adjustment, you can easily fall in love with your footloose and fancy free life. In doing so, you take the pressure off, and celebrate Y-O-U for the amazing individual that you are.
Broken or brand new? Support Kerianne through her breakup!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 15, 2009 - 9:00 am
Struggling to heal and move on from your breakup? The holidays can make things harder. But don’t give up.
This weekend, I had the pleasure of working with my new client Kerianne, who’s ready to break free from her heartbreak and move into hope, possibility, and action.
Follow Kerianne’s journey as she gets over her ex with style, sass, and strength.
Day by day, Kerianne’s working on being brand new, not broken.
Let’s hear it for Kerianne!
And how will you step into action to heal your heart? Go from broken to brand new in record time!
Has your life changed in 30 days? Mine has!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 12, 2009 - 4:55 pm
Whew! What a month it’s been!
Here’s just some of the highlights, both exquisite and excruciating…
- My 8 Week If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Teleclass launched and is now in Week #4
- I attended an AMAZING (and you may even say life altering) five-day event with brilliant success coach David Neagle in Las Vegas
- I started a detox program and have lost 6 pounds (remember my goal of losing 20 by Valentine’s Day? Woohoo!)
- Our beloved cat Maya became suddenly and seriously ill and we had put her to sleep
Honestly, I could go on and on about how the last 30 days have been truly transformational for me.
But I’d rather hear from you.
How has your life transformed in the last 30 days?
What have you been celebrating, struggling with, and/or shifting?
It’s been a rough month, don’t worry. It doesn’t mean you’re not making progress.
It may mean you’re FINALLY facing your demons, dealing with resistance, and possibly changing your life for the better.
At least I hope that’s what all the struggle and strife is about. I’d hate for you to be struggling and suffering without any payoffs in the end.
The amazing women in my 8 Week If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Teleclass have been undergoing massive transformations. And while it’s not all easy and fun, they’re always sharing the power of those shifts. I’d like to share some of their emails with you…
On Week #1:
I just wanted to let you know that I absolutely LOVED the call last night. I got so much more out of it than I expected! WOW!! AWESOME!
On Week #2:
“I just want you to know that these calls are amazing and are really helping me work through things and realize things I haven’t in the past. I want to thank you for all you have done for me and continue to do. You are truly an amazing person and I am grateful everyday that you are part of my life.”
On Week #3:
“I’m still totally amazed by my experience last night. I felt like it completed a circle for me. For as long as I can remember, I have been stuck with emptiness and thinking I didn’t deserve to be happy and positive. I have spent years telling myself that God loves me over and over trying to feel better. But last night I was able to feel the love I had for myself as my “wise old self” looking at who I am right now.”
On Week #4:
“I finally realize that I am not going to settle for crumbs, shortchange myself or settle for less than I deserve. The next time I fall in love it will be with someone who can reciprocate. I will no longer be just a place holder. And I now know how to forgive myself for being and staying in a relationship that wasn’t working.”
Pretty amazing, isn’t it? I’m so honored to lead this class and so proud of the women who are changing their future every day.
btw, I just opened enrollment for my next 8 Week If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Teleclass. Even though class doesn’t start until 2010, you can enjoy a super fabulous 35% discount AND get plenty of hands-on support (a.k.a. private coaching!) through the holidays when you sign up now!
Truthfully, life isn’t always easy. That’s why you’ve got to ask for help…
While I have experienced tremendous bliss in this last month, I’ve also felt excruciating loss with the passing of my very first pet, our beloved cat Maya.
My husband and I didn’t even know she was sick until she started vomiting uncontrollably and drooling. We were blessed that we weren’t traveling and got to be home with her in her final week. It went so fast!
Honestly, making the decision to put Maya down was one of the hardest decisions of my life. I felt confused, scared, sad, angry, and lost. Kind of like how you feel when losing someone you love to a breakup or divorce, right?
I’m thankful I didn’t go through this all alone. I had my husband, my family, and an incredible vet, who we finally found after much frustration, thanks to our dear friend Marissa, who’s a vet in San Luis Obispo. When she heard Maya was sick, she dropped everything to review medical records, xrays, and make thoughtful suggestions and referrals.
In the end, we did what was right for Maya. And when she died in my arms, surrounded by the most compassionate vet on the earth, my mother, my sister, my husband, and myself, we all cried tears of both sadness for our loss and joy because it was such a dignified end to such a beautiful life.
And that’s when it hit me.
When we leave a relationship, or when someone leaves us, we don’t always get a dignified ending.
We don’t always get to celebrate the love we shared because we’re often too focused on the loss, the pain, and the tremendous sadness we experience.
We wallow because we’re afraid to let go and be alone, to lose our love, and to start again.
But starting over is essential.
Not only that, it’s healthy!
My husband and I have started over in a world without Maya. Our cat Buster has started over and actually relishes being Top Cat for the first time ever. Maya isn’t with us anymore, but she’s far from forgotten. She’s in our hearts, our memories, our framed photos, and in little moments that remind us of her. We regularly talk and laugh about her cute little pink nose, how she liked to be scratched between her ears, and how she flirted with every man who ever set foot through our front door, including, and most especially my husband.
Over the years, Maya and I had been through numerous breakups, plenty of heartbreak, and while she loved each and every one of my boyfriends, she loved my husband best of all.
Scratch that – she worshiped and adored my husband. Sometimes I think she wished she had him all to herself and didn’t have to share him with me.
And I think my husband relished the role of being the provider in the house, taking care of his sometimes-needy, often bossy, but genuinely loving ladies. Between me and Maya, he had his work cut out for him!
Now that Maya’s gone, the balance of energy has shifted in our home. I’m now the lone female living with two sweet, sensitive, adoring, lovable men, my husband and our cat Buster. It’s now my turn to take care of the men in the house, and I LOVE doing it!
Sometimes I’m sad when I think of Maya, but mostly, I’m happy because wherever she is, she’s happy, peaceful, and pain-free. And I survived putting her down, something I didn’t think was survivable.
But I’m still here.
And so are you.
If you’re struggling to pick up the pieces and move on with your life, I want that to change right this very minute.
Today, I invite you to start LIVING beyond the pain, loss, despair, and grief you’re experiencing.
I also invite you to celebrate the love you once had, give thanks for having experienced it, and LET IT GO.
I invite you to stand up, give yourself a big, fat hug, and remind yourself that you SURVIVED.
You SURVIVED the loss of love.
You SURVIVED the uncertainty of life without your ex, of standing on your own two feet, of being single again.
When will you truly THRIVE?
When will you fall in love with yourself, your life, and the love that’s still here?
When will you celebrate your strength, resilience, and power?
Let today be the day.
Today, I invite you to:
- Take a look in the mirror and get to know the amazing, brilliant, brave woman staring back at you
- Take an inventory of what you’re thankful for, both in your life and from your last relationship
- Celebrate the fact that you loved, you lost, and you’re still here
And then go out and do something bold, brash, and beautiful!
Maybe you’ll get a makeover, chopping your locks, and stepping into the most fabulous version of yourself…
Maybe you’ll put on your most booty-licious jeans and strut your stuff down the street, flirting with strangers…
And maybe you’ll finally get up the courage to talk to that cutie you always see in the latte line, on the subway, or at the grocery store…
Give yourself permission to have fun! (You deserve it!)
When in doubt, check out my daily video tips on how to heal your heart by New Year’s Eve.
And if you have any questions, e-mail ask@lisasteadman.com.
I’m here to support you and help you re-awaken to that blissful, beautiful, abundant life you deserve to live.
It won’t always be easy, but it will be well worth the effort, I promise!
Have you reviewed your relationship bill of rights?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 9, 2009 - 7:00 am
I was at a barbecue recently with some dear friends I hadn’t seen in a while. My girlfriend, mother to two tween girls, asked me if I’d seen the Teen Dating Bill of Rights. She then handed me a piece of paper, explaining that her daughters had been given a copy to help educate them on how to handle relationships with boys.
As I was reading the teen dating Bill of Rights, it struck me how important this information was. And not just for preteen girls (although I love the idea that young girls are being educated in how they deserve to be treated by boys).
My clients – smart, savvy, amazing grown up women like you – could benefit from reviewing and incorporating the dating bill of rights, too.
In my coaching practice, I’m constantly reminded that it doesn’t matter how smart, beautiful, cultured, talented, and/or amazing a woman really is. She can still get stuck in the wrong relationship. She can still put up with way too much crap from some guy who doesn’t deserve her. And she can still forget her value, worth, and self respect.
To that end, I am including the Dating Bill of Rights below. I encourage you to review it, print it, and put it somewhere that you’ll see it on a daily basis – on your fridge, on your bathroom mirror, by your bed, etc. This is simple yet profound information. Use it to better your dating future.
Enjoy!
Dating Bill of Rights and Pledge
I have the right:
1. To always be treated with respect.
2. In a respectful relationship, you should be treated as an equal.
3. To be in a healthy relationship.
4. A healthy relationship is not controlling, manipulative, or jealous.
5. A healthy relationship involves honesty, trust, and communication.
6. To not be hurt physically or emotionally.
7. You should feel safe in your relationship at all times. Abuse is never deserved and is never your fault. Conflicts should be resolved in a peaceful and rational way.
8. To refuse sex or affection at anytime.
9. A healthy relationship involves making consensual sexual decisions. You have the right to not have sex. Even if you have had sex before, you have the right to refuse sex for any reason.
10. To have friends and activities apart from my boyfriend or girlfriend.
11. Spending time by yourself, with male or female friends, or with family is normal and healthy.
12. To end a relationship.
13. You should not be harassed, threatened, or made to feel guilty for ending an unhealthy or healthy relationship. You have the right to end a relationship for any reason you choose.
I pledge to:
* Always treat my boyfriend or girlfriend with respect.
* Never hurt my boyfriend or girlfriend physically, verbally, or emotionally.
* Respect my girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s decisions concerning sex and affection.
* Not be controlling or manipulative in my relationship.
* Accept responsibility for myself and my actions.
Don’t you just love it? Feel free to add, edit, and tweak your own personal bill of rights to match your wants, needs, and desires.
Need help implementing your Bill of Rights? Contact me for support. I want to help you reconnect to what’s possible.
What do Halle Berry, Jenny McCarthy, and Britney Spears know that you don’t?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 7, 2009 - 7:00 am
Are you afraid to move on following your breakup?
Feeling stuck because:
You still love your ex
You’re worried about your ex
You want another chance to make it work
You think love has passed you by
Don’t give up. Instead, take a page from certain starlets like Halle, Britney, Jenny, and J Lo and wake up, break free, and move on. First, find out how you’re getting stuck by identifying if you’re a caretaker, hopeless romantic, love pessimist, or Chicken Little. You can do this in Chapter 4 of It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown: Get over the big one and change your life – for good!
Got questions? Email ask@lisasteadman.com
Got the breakup blues? Plan a girl getaway!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 4, 2009 - 7:00 am
Feeling down after your breakup? Don’t disappear for the rest of the year. Instead, reconnect to your fabulousness with a girl getaway! Whether you can gather the girls and escape for an entire weekend or just sneak off for a night of fab fun, spending time with gal pals reminds you of just how amazing you are, and how your life doesn’t suck just because your ex isn’t in it.
For added support, review Chapter 14 in It’s a Breakup, Not a Breakdown Workbook: A 21-Day Action Plan to Plot Your Revenge, Spoil Yourself, and Find Out How Good Your Life Is Without Him. There, you’ll find plenty of ideas, tips, and suggestions for rocking your girl getaway.
And when you’re ready to move on, enroll in my 30 Day Get Out There Challenge for Singles.
Want to share your movin’ on success? Post a comment here or on my Facebook Fan Page.
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