Do You Know Your Needs?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on October 18, 2009 - 6:00 am
Before you get into another relationship, you owe it to your love future to get in touch with a little thing called Your Needs.
Yep, your needs.
Know ‘em? Great!
Don’t? Uh-oh.
But don’t distress. You just need to start asking yourself these oh-so-important questions…
– What is it I REALLY need? Am I someone who needs space in a relationship? Do I need lots of affection?
– What are my relationship deal breakers?
– What ticks me off, rocks my world, tickles my fancy?
The more you know about your own needs, the more your future love will thank you!
Silent Agreements
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on October 17, 2009 - 11:00 pm
What silent agreements have you made with yourself, the universe, and the people in your life?
Here are just some of the silent agreements you may have made:
“I can be successful and wealthy but I don’t get to have the love I want because that would mean I have it all. No one gets to have it all.”
“I get to have love but my health has to suffer so no one begrudges my happiness.”
“Being broke is my way of justifying why I don’t go after the life I really want. “
Sound familiar? Take a look at the silent agreements you may have made. Give yourself permission to rewrite your silent agreements and allow yourself the life you REALLY want to live. You don’t have to sacrifice a part of yourself to have what you want in other areas.
Leggo the Neggo
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on - 6:00 am
Whether you’re healing your heart after a breakup, single and feeling sorry for yourself, or in a relationship and feeling uninspired, it may be time to…
LEGGO THE NEGGO!
Now’s the time to stop wallowing and instead become your own best friend. Bring the fun back into your life. Whether it’s take a mental health day from work, or gather the girls and go bar-hopping, or pamper yourself with a much-needed spa day, DO SOMETHING to shake up your routine and leggo that old, icky, residual NEGGO.
The Ninety Ten Principle
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on October 16, 2009 - 6:00 am
Have you heard of the 90-10 principle? If not, listen up!
When you’re in a relationship, is 90 percent decent, with 10 percent really pretty crappy?
Believe it or not, that’s not a great ratio.
Yes, all relationships require compromise. So how do you tell the difference between healthy compromise and unhealthy compromise? Ask yourself these important questions…
– Does the 10% of the relationship that doesn’t work make me feel like I’m sacrificing myself for the sake of the relationship?
– Have I asked to have my needs met and they’re still not being met? And if so, what am I willing to do about it?
– Does the balance of give and take feel incredibly unbalanced in the favor of my partner? Is so, what am I doing about it?
If you feel like you’re sacrificing yourself too much in a relationship, or that the 10% that doesn’t work is costing you too much, you may need to change the relationship or your relationship status.
What Is Your Gut Telling You?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on October 15, 2009 - 6:00 am
If you really listened, what would your gut tell you?
I’ve been talking to a lot of women lately who say they KNOW their ex isn’t good for them, but they’re still holding on for dear life.
Or they know if they could just get over their fears, they could LEAP into their dream life.
These same women also say their gut is telling them they HAVE to move on, HAVE to make change, and HAVE to stop feeling so much pain.
And yet many of these women are ignoring their gut instinct to evolve.
I’d like to invite you to STOP ignoring your gut.
I chose to listen to mine, even though it seemed impractical, silly, and un-affordable.
It’s NOT.
Just like whatever your gut is telling you is NOT IMPRACTICAL, SILLY, OR UN-AFFORDABLE.
In reality, you can’t afford NOT to listen to your gut. It’s COSTING you EVERYTHING.
Starting today, tune in. Honor what you hear, even if it scares you.
ESPECIALLY if it scares you. That’s how you know you’re up to the challenge of making change!
Who’s in your Woohoo Crew?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on October 13, 2009 - 11:00 pm
I hope you’re having a fabulous week. Do you have big plans for the Fourth of July weekend? I’ll been barbecuing with friends and family, enjoying the beautiful Southern California weather, and getting ready for my media tour to New York in conjunction with my book It’s A Breakup Not A Breakdown Workbook: A 21-Day Action Plan to Plot Your Revenge, Spoil Yourself, and Find Out How Good Your Life Is Without Him.
But first, I’ve got a question for you. Who’s in your Woohoo Crew?
In both my books and in my emails, I know I talk a lot about the importance of having a Boohoo Crew, i.e. your inner circle of support during breakup recovery. But once your heart is on the mend, the support shouldn’t end there.
To create a life you truly love, it’s important to have a core group of loved ones who can celebrate life’s triumphs and commiserate during the tough times. And that’s where your Woohoo Crew comes in.
So who’s in your Woohoo Crew?
Let me tell you a little bit about mine. My husband’s at the core. He’s amazing! I also have incredible friends, supportive parents (after years of training!), and a great support staff for my business.
See, over the years I’ve come to realize the value of having ongoing support, a trusted inner circle, and knowing when I need to ask for help.
With all of life’s ups and downs, I know that not everyone is lucky enough to have a Woohoo Crew.
That’s why I created my 8 Week Heal Your Heart TeleClass – to help women just like you heal their hearts in record time in a supportive and nurturing group environment. (We’re in Week #6 and everyone is experiencing INCREDIBLE momentum!)
The members in my Rock Your Love Life program are also ROCKING their results. Talk about a spirited and amazing Woohoo Crew!
And that’s why I do private coaching – to provide hands on guidance, help, and accountability for individuals looking to powerfully transform what’s happening in their lives – in ALL AREAS! The work is pretty incredible. And I love doing it!
So again, I want to know… who’s in your Woohoo Crew?
If you’ve got loving and supportive friends and family, congratulations! You’re poised for success, happiness, and abundance.
If you don’t, you may need some help.
I’d like to help you. I’m hosting a FREE call on Monday, July 6 @ 6pm Pacific. On the call, I’ll answer all of your burning relationship questions.
To register for my FREE call, go here:
http://lisasteadman.com/ask-lisa-steadman
Once you sign up, the call information will be emailed directly to you, along with instructions on how to submit your questions ahead of time.
Remember, to plow through blocks, limiting beliefs, and masterfully manifest your heart’s desire, you need ongoing support. Join my free call next week to get the hands-on help you deserve.
Here’s that link again to register:
http://lisasteadman.com/ask-lisa-steadman
I look forward to speaking with you soon.
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FREE If He’s Not The One. Who Is? REPLAY
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on - 11:00 am
Woohoo! My FREE If He’s not The One, Who Is? call was AMAZING! You can listen to the replay here:
http://www.instantteleseminar.com/?eventid=9530418
And hurry! Due to overwhelming demand for my If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Enhanced 8 Week TeleClass (partly due to the incredible NEW information being presented AND those $2,500 in FREE bonuses I’m giving away if you register this week – details here), space is filling up fast!
Hurry! My offer ends tonight @ midnight…
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on October 12, 2009 - 12:49 pm
I might be able to help you break free of past dysfunctional relationship patterns and bad love habits, and change the course of your love future by showing you how to become a smart and savvy dater… but I can’t stop my offer from expiring…
Due to overwhelming demand for my If He’s Not The One, Who Is? Enhanced 8 Week TeleClass (partly due to the incredible NEW information being presented AND those $2,500 in FREE bonuses I’m giving away if you register now… details here), and my desire to keep the community small, intimate, and ONLY include the most amazing women, I’m going to stop registration at midnight TONIGHT.
If you haven’t reserved your space yet, and you want to let go of past relationship failures and frustrations, instead calling in and experiencing healthier, happier, more blissful relationships in your future, then you can’t afford to miss out. Click here now to reserve your spot before time – and space — runs out!
I’ve been working with the most amazing women for years now, helping them heal their hearts and step into possibility, passion, and purpose, I still get excited every time I hear from a woman who says she’s ready for real results.
Here’s what some of the women who have signed up for this incredible teleclass are saying…
“Thank you so much for allowing me to be a part of this amazing class and be with other amazing women. I cannot wait to start this shift!!!”
– Shanon
“The new program sounds great and I can’t wait to get started!”
– Katherine
“I’m SO excited, Lisa! I can’t wait!”
- Leigha
“This sounds PERFECT for me. Thanks!”
- Angela
“This is EXACTLY what I’m looking for!”
- Kym
All women just like you…who worried that they were doomed to get love wrong, over and over, for the rest of their lives. They also feared that they’d screwed it up with Mr. Right, and lost out on their chance of ever having happily ever after with The One.
But guess what? By saying sayonara to fear and doubt, and stepping into possibility and abundance thinking, these women have released the past and are poised for relationship success, just by signing up for my 8 week If He’s Not The One, Who Is TeleClass.
Class starts next Monday, October 19 with a getting to know you call TONIGHT @ 6:30 pm Pacific.
When you take my 8 Week “If He’s Not The One, Who Is?” Teleclass, you’ll learn how to break free of all those old patterns and habits that delivered lackluster love results, as well as…
– How your relationship past defines your love future — and what to do about it
– What your subconscious mind really believes that is sabotaging your genuine desire for love
– The unhealthy dating and relationship traps, tricks, and blatant lies that are messing with your head
– How to stop attracting jerks, losers, and/or emotionally unavailable men
– How to identify the damaging dating personas you fall prey to, and what you need to do to break free of them — forever
– How to step out of scarcity thinking and into abundance dating
– How to stop getting sidelined unnecessarily by dating disappointment (it’s NOT the same as heartbreak!)
– What the perfect target rich environments are for you — and what to do about them!
– How to tell the difference between Mr. Next and Mr. Right
Don’t miss your opportunity to learn the secrets to creating the relationships of your dreams! I’ve already called in my perfect partner using these techniques.
Don’t you want to be a success story just like me?
Wouldn’t you like to experience supportive, nurturing, healthy, happy, abundance love?
If you answered YES!, then you can’t afford to miss out.
PS – Remember, there are over $2,500 in special free bonuses waiting for you when you today! Click here to register.
And to reward you for your commitment, I want to gift you $200 off the price of the class. Here’s how to redeem this special offer:
2. Click the Add to Cart link
3. Once you’re in my secure shopping cart, enter this coupon code in the coupon code box: Woohoo
4. Click apply and see the discount apply. Then check out and voila! You’re all signed up!
I can’t wait to work with you.
Hurry!!!! ONLY 5 SPOTS LEFT!!!
The REAL reason to exorcise your ex by New Year’s Eve
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on - 8:00 am
I confess. Here’s the REAL reason I want you to heal your heart by the holiday season…so you can make 2010 the year of Y-O-U! I want you to find love, happiness, success, abundance, etc. You might even say, I want you to have more Woohoo! next year. But first, ya gotta heal your heart!
Here are the other four reasons to heal your heart by the holidays…
Reason 1: Don’t Pine Over Your Ex Any Longer
Reason 2: You Don’t Deserve to Feel Like A Failure at Love
Reason 3: Your Breakup Shouldn’t Make You Crazy
Reason 4: You Owe It To Yourself to Heal
Do you feel like a failure at love?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on October 11, 2009 - 11:00 pm
Feeling like a failure at love these days? Stop right there.
You are not a failure at love. You just haven’t gotten it quite right yet. And that’s fabulous! You just need to tweak your perspective.
Here’s how.
Instead of looking at past relationships that ended as failures, look at them as life lessons. When you give yourself permission to learn from your experiences, they stop being painful and become transformative vehicles for change and growth.
Let me clarify. Instead of saying, “All mean leave me. I’m the failure,” start looking at how you may have chosen the wrong men or men who had commitment issues based on the fact that your silent agreement with the universe was that all men leave.
Or instead of telling yourself that you’re a doormat for any man who needs saving, realize that may have been your pattern in the past but you CAN break free of that limited thinking. It’s not your cross to bear for the rest of your life.
Today is a new day. Take steps to change your future by changing the story you tell yourself. You are no longer a failure at love. There’s still plenty of time to get it right when you PAY ATTENTION and learn your lessons!
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