Do you feel like a failure at love?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on October 11, 2009 - 11:00 pm
Feeling like a failure at love these days? Stop right there.
You are not a failure at love. You just haven’t gotten it quite right yet. And that’s fabulous! You just need to tweak your perspective.
Here’s how.
Instead of looking at past relationships that ended as failures, look at them as life lessons. When you give yourself permission to learn from your experiences, they stop being painful and become transformative vehicles for change and growth.
Let me clarify. Instead of saying, “All mean leave me. I’m the failure,” start looking at how you may have chosen the wrong men or men who had commitment issues based on the fact that your silent agreement with the universe was that all men leave.
Or instead of telling yourself that you’re a doormat for any man who needs saving, realize that may have been your pattern in the past but you CAN break free of that limited thinking. It’s not your cross to bear for the rest of your life.
Today is a new day. Take steps to change your future by changing the story you tell yourself. You are no longer a failure at love. There’s still plenty of time to get it right when you PAY ATTENTION and learn your lessons!
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