Do you suffer from Prince Harming Syndrome? Find out TONIGHT!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 31, 2009 - 10:00 am
Do you suffer from Prince Harming Syndrome?
You can find out tonight on my exclusive call with best selling author Karen Salmansohn.
Karen just wrote a phenomenal new book called Prince Harming Syndrome: Break Bad Relationship Patterns for Good—5 Essentials for Finding True Love (and they’re not what you think)
Great title, right?
Tonight, Karen will share her incredible insights about dating and how to find love, including:
– What is a Prince Harming?
– How to break your Prince Harming addiction
– How long should a woman wait to sleep with a man?
– The 5 essentials to true love
– The specific questions you should ask on dates
Enter your name and email addy on this page to get the dial in deets for tonight’s call:
Got questions for Karen? Email them to Ask@LisaSteadman.com.
See you tonight!
And for more on the fab Ms. Karen, visit her site @ NotSalmon.com
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Hurry! Early Bird Discount ends @ midnight TONIGHT!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on - 7:00 am
Here’s the kind of success you can expect …
Happy Monday! After a relaxing weekend away, I’m back in the office and excited about the week ahead.
What’s coming up for you this week that’s got you excited? Hopefully you’ve got time with friends on the calendar, some self nurturing activities (a mani-pedi or massage, perhaps?), and time to heal your heart and start making plans towards your fab future.
By now, you’ve most likely heard me talking about my upcoming 8 Week Heal Your Heart By The Holidays TeleClass. I’m SO excited to work with the 20 extraordinary women who are ready to rock their reinvention and step into their futures by New Year’s Eve. Space in the class is filling up FAST!
To ensure you get your spot (and take advantage of the Early Bird Discount that ends @ midnight Pacific TONIGHT), SIGN UP NOW.
And to give you a sneak peek @ the kind of success you can expect during my teleclass, here’s what past clients have said…
“Thank you so much for holding inspiring calls each week. It’s been very therapeutic to talk about what I want and to make some movement forward. I am so ready to step into the spotlight and live my life to the fullest. In the past I’ve skated around the ideas but NOW I’m ready to execute!! I am so ready to be in a loving relationship with a awesome, beautiful man that keeps me smiling even after 20 years. I’m excited about the new relationship I’m developing in myself. I’m learning to love myself even when I don’t feel so hot. Thank you!”
Angela
“Before the class, any time something bad happened, I’d go right back down to the pity party of “Look what my ex has done to me.” That does not help me one bit. Working with you has shifted my focus. Thank you again for helping me look towards my future!”
- Linda
“I love the ongoing support of your teleclass. The group dynamic is fun and helpful. AND this is the skinniest I have been in years!”
Maggie
“I just want to say how much I truly appreciate you! Thank you for reminding me and helping me to tap into that Goddess within. Just acknowledging these new feelings about myself and your gentle nudges have helped me reaffirm who it is that I’m becoming. You’re the best!”
- Joan
Sign Up Now!
I am so proud of all the women I’ve worked with this year who have healed their hearts and stepped into their magnificent futures! By saying “Yes” to themselves, these brave ladies have:
Booked a six month single gal adventure in Paris, thanks to an apartment swap
FINALLY moved forward with divorce proceedings
Stepped into the spotlight, reconnected to music, and gone on tour in Europe
Started attracting interesting, available, exceptional men
Love that!
When you sign up for my 8 week teleclass you get:
1. Weekly group calls with me (and some fab guest experts)
2. Weekly materials including worksheets, tools, and tips to help you surmount any recovery hurdle.
3. Access to an exclusive area of my message board AND a private Facebook group for a rich and supportive community.
4. FREE autographed copies of my best selling book It’s A Breakup, Not A Breakdown: Get Over the Big One and Change Your Life – for good! and my workbook It’s A Breakup, Not A Breakdown Workbook: A 21 day plan to plot your revenge, spoil yourself, and find out how good life is without him.
5. VIP access to my FREE 3 Week It’s A Breakup, Not A Breakdown Free Teleclass (Class starts September 15, and takes place on 3 consecutive Tuesday nights — 9/15, 9/22, 9/29.)
6. Discounts on my private coaching for added support.
I KNOW how transformative these classes are. If you want to heal your heart in record time, take advantage of the Early Bird Discount (expiring @ midnight tonight) and SIGN UP NOW.
To your success!
xoxo,
Lisa
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AM Northwest Media Appearance
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 29, 2009 - 12:06 am
On my recent trip to Portland, I had the pleasure of being on AM Northwest…
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This astrologer knows why you’re still single
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 26, 2009 - 7:00 am
As you’ve no doubt noticed by now, I’m a big believer in helping women move away from the pain of their past and into their MAGNIFICENT futures.
Sometimes that means you have to heal your heart, get out of your own way, and reinvent yourself to masterfully call in your perfect partner.
As a relationship coach, and as a happily married woman I know FULL well that so much of your romantic success is because of YOU and WHAT YOU DO to create and inspire love in your life.
I focus so much on this area of my coaching practice that I don’t always consider “other” things thought that may be having JUST as important when it comes to finding your very own “happily ever after.”
Things like (gulp!) “destiny,” “karma,” or “fate” kinda stuff.
Even soul mates…
Not sure I believe in soul mates, but I may be wrong. And I can accept that.
See, I’ve come to know and admire the work of someone who does know all about such things.
My friend Carol Allen is an incredible Vedic astrologer as well as a relationship Coach. You may have heard me interview her earlier this year for my Rock Your Love Life coaching program. She’s pretty amazing, and oh-so-profound!
As an astrologer, she’s able to see if a really couple has what it takes – the spiritual
“mojo” to go the distance. She can also tell a single woman when she’s most likely to meet the love of her life. (As in the date!)
Sound crazy? It’s not!
I’ve been following Carol for quite some time now. I’ve been VERY intrigued, now I’m convinced she’s an absolute genius!
See, Vedic astrology has been around for thousands of years – it’s the system of ancient India, and is FAR more complex and powerful than the usual, “Hey Aquarius – you’re good with Libra and Aries” kind of “pop” astrology we’ve all come to know.
And they’ve been doing something VERY important in India that makes this system different – they’ve been arranging the majority of their marriages for eons and STILL do.
And, if Hindu – they don’t agree to the marriage unless their astrologer gives them the “thumbs up.”
So they’ve had FOREVER to “work out the kinks” of their methods, and have figured out what they’re talking about…
Carol has an amazing FREE newsletter about it all (for women of any relationship status, including suddenly single and healing) that’s jam packed with the very best of what the stars have to say in love, as well as a lot of great “real world” advice that I love.
Now, I get a lot of email, but I actually READ Carol’s free newsletter. I love it and you can, too!
Sign up here.
Once you sign up, you can learn about Carol’s in-depth, personalized compatibility report called, “The Right Man Report.”
It uses the main technique that’s been used for forever to arrange marriages.
Amazingly, it includes a section that can explain if a relationship will make you SECURE and able to RELAX, or if it will only bring out THE WORST in you, and make you an emotional nervous wreck… no matter how much you “work” on it.
As you know – it can take a long time, even YEARS, to figure out if a relationship is worth your precious time and energy.
With Carol’s report, you can know in mere minutes, and how to make the best of things that may be challenging. Love that!
I know how much I’ve learned from Carol. I hope you will, too!
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My (breakup) anniversary gift to you!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 18, 2009 - 11:00 am
Five years ago this month, I summoned the strength to walk away from my Big Breakup for good. This was after an entire year of breakups, makeups, booty calls, and ongoing cracks in my broken heart. Ouch!
So what made me walk away for good – FINALLY?
I’m often asked this question. And for awhile, I didn’t have an answer. I didn’t know why ONE DAY I somehow found the courage I’d never had before.
But then it hit me. Why I FINALLY decided to go cold turkey…
Whereas once upon a time, when the fear of letting go of Mr. Ex was too excruciating to imagine, it was becoming abundantly clear that staying stuck, broken hearted, and miserable was actually MORE PAINFUL than walking away and moving on.
That’s why I went cold turkey. Because the idea of moving on became not only more appealing than staying stuck, but like the ONLY POSSIBLE OPTION.
Don’t get me wrong. It wasn’t EASY.
After walking away, my life didn’t miraculously change. But over time, things did get easier. Once I made the commitment to myself, to my hopeful future, and to my DESIRE for a better life, my journey began to feel effortless.
Five years later, my life is completely different. I’m happily married, I love writing my books, and have a thriving coaching practice. Today, I work with some of the most intelligent, successful, phenomenal women who are reinventing their lives in remarkable ways!
What a difference five years makes!
Now, I don’t tell you all this to brag, but to show you what’s possible when you stop banging your head against the same wall and expecting it not to hurt…
When you stop looking over your shoulder at the smoldering remains of your last relationship and instead look forward to your hopeful future…
When you wake up to the beautiful truth that true love and happiness aren’t just for other people, they’re readily available for you, too…
All you have to do is believe it’s possible, and ASK FOR HELP.
That’s where I come in.
A few days ago, I HINTED about a brand new FREE coaching program I was launching in September. I told you this was the first and only time I was going to offer such a program in 2009. And I promised more details – SOON!
Well, I’ve finalized the details and here they are. It’s my breakup anniversary gift to you!
Introducing For The First Time Ever…
My 3 Week It’s A Breakup, Not A Breakdown Free Teleclass
I’ve never done this before, but because I want to share my message with as many amazing women as possible, regardless of your financial status, I’m offering a FREE 3 part IT’S A BREAKUP, NOT A BREAKDOWN TELECLASS.
Class starts September 15, and takes place on 3 consecutive Tuesday nights (9/15, 9/22, 9/29). These 3 free 90 minute calls are a sneak preview of what 20 lucky class participants will experience in my transformative 8 Week Heal Your Heart by the Holidays TeleClass that starts October 14.
I’m only taking 40 women in my FREE 3 week program, and it’s first come first served!
Here’s what you’ll experience during my FREE 3 part IT’S A BREAKUP, NOT A BREAKDOWN TELECLASS:
– A check list for removing your ex from your online and offline life
– Powerful techniques to help you reconnect to your joyful self
– Lessons in how to reinvent your home, your heart, and your social life so that you love your life even more than when you were with your ex
– Success strategies for re-visioning your life to masterfully manifest your dream man, job, home, and more
– Tools to help un-block areas of your life where you feel stuck
– PLUS, WEEKLY accountability exercises, 24/7 access to class participants in a private Facebook group, and hands on coaching with me!
This is the first and only time I’m offering this unique opportunity to work with me for 3 consecutive weeks for FREE this year. I suggest you join me ONLY if you want to heal your heart by the holidays and fall back in love with your life.
To reserve your spot in this free EXCLUSIVE program, sign up NOW!
But hurry — I’m only taking 40 women in this program, and it’s first come first served.
PLUS, when you sign up for my 8 Week Heal Your Heart by the Holidays TeleClass, you’ll get VIP access to my FREE 3 part IT’S A BREAKUP, NOT A BREAKDOWN TELECLASS. (That’s 11 weeks with me for a crazy amazing price!)
I’m only taking 20 women in my 8 Week Heal Your Heart By The Holidays TeleClass, and space is already filling up FAST! (What are you waiting for?)
As I reflect back on my breakup anniversary 5 years ago, I’m reminded of the importance of committing to your heartbreak recovery by asking for help. I didn’t heal my heart alone. I ASKED FOR HELP. I invite you to do so, too.
To reserve your spot in my FREE 3 part IT’S A BREAKUP, NOT A BREAKDOWN TELECLASS, sign up NOW!
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I’m spilling secrets!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 17, 2009 - 11:00 pm
In the last few years, I’ve had the honor of working with and talking to hundreds, maybe even thousands, of women who are experiencing a Big Breakup, or one of the little breakups along the way.
Some women heal their hearts quickly, and move on to their blissful new lives with ease, style, and gratitude… (I hope this is you!)
And some women stay stuck for years, hung up on What could have been, how their ex did them wrong, or how the love of their life slipped away, and they’re now doomed to end up alone and miserable…
In talking to and working with these women, it has become abundantly clear to me what keeps a woman stuck in feelings of hopelessness, despair, and sadness following a breakup vs. those who move on with ease and effortlessness.
And I want to share this secret with you now.
It comes down to choice.
You heard me – choice!
Staying stuck is a choice.
So is moving on.
It really IS that simple.
Of course, it doesn’t always FEEL that simple. Matter of fact, when you’re in the throes of a bad breakup, the pain doesn’t always FEEL like a choice.
But it is. And here’s what I mean.
When you’re going through a devastating breakup, you have a choice – to let your heartbreak crush you, break your spirit, and muddy your mind, asking the question Why is this happening TO me?…
Or you can summon your inner strength, dig deep, and ask yourself Why this is happening FOR me?
Women who heal their hearts and move on effortlessly do so because they CHOOSE to believe their happily ever after future still exists.
Women who get stuck in a rut, never letting go of their heartbreak do so because they CHOOSE to believe the love of their life is now in the past.
What would happen if you made a different choice about your breakup? If you embraced the idea that your ex WAS NOT Mr. Right, and instead, Mr. Right is STILL in your future, waiting for you, working on his issues, doing his very best to get ready for you, wouldn’t you do everything possible to get ready for him?
I’m hoping the answer is YES!
I’m so committed to teaching women how to step into choice when it comes to healing their heart and moving on, I’m putting together an exciting new program. It officially launches in September. And while the details are still hush-hush, I can tell you this…
This particular program will not cost you a thing. And it will allow 40 amazing women to spend 3 incredible weeks with me.
It’s THAT simple! This is my gift to you. But STAY TUNED. I’ll be announcing how you can participate in this exceptional opportunity to work closely with me in the coming week. When I do, you must be one of the first 40 women to respond.
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Listen to THESE success stories!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 10, 2009 - 11:00 pm
This week has been incredible. Between my private coaching clients and my Rock Your Love Life group, there’s so much to celebrate! And in hopes of INSPIRING you to live your best life, starting right this very minute, I want to share some of the victories I’m hearing about.
– After much frustration, one of my clients recently implemented new boundaries with her ex, whom she has to stay in contact with because they have children together. What’s remarkable is that by
putting these new boundaries in place, her ex has apologized for past bad behavior (a first!), stepped into respect for her, and as a result, she’s rockin’ a whole new energy and attitude (and men are
taking notice!). PLUS, she’s paying her success forward, helping a friend through her own troubled relationship. They meet for weekly accountability sessions. Did I mention my client’s losing weight
and dreaming BIG? Woohoo!
– Another amazing woman just rocked her reinvention by going from platinum blonde to jet black. For her, reclaiming her look was part of releasing her ex’s critical comments about her body. And trust me — she was gorgeous to begin with. Now she’s unstoppable!
– Another client has started redefining what love looks and feels like for her. She’s gotten so clear that she not only meditates on this blissful and beautiful love, but she manifests it nightly in her sleep.
She reports increased clarity and a greater belief in what’s possible. PLUS, she’s changed the way she interacts with men and has released her scarcity fears, instead embracing the belief that good men are everywhere. Woohoo!
– And one more groovy girl has decided that she’s tired of playing small. No longer content to sit back and let amazing things pass her by, she’s stepping into this bold statement: “I’m making a better me for myself, my future love, and my clients.”
Don’t you love the successes these amazing women are enjoying? I’ll continue sharing more throughout the month. For now, I hope you feel inspired by their successes. These can be yours, too. In fact, I’d love to hear your success stories. Email them to me @ Lisa@lisasteadman.com.
Ready to rock your own reinvention and become a true success story?
Sign up for my 8 Week Heal Your Heart By The Holidays TeleClass, starting October 12. This will be my final class of the year, so don’t miss out! And while it’s 2 months away, when you sign up this month, you get rewarded BIG TIME! Sign up by August 31 and you’ll get:
– 2 FREE private coaching calls with me before the class even starts!
– VIP access to my 3 Week FREE It’s A Breakup, Not A Breakdown Teleclass in September
– A 40% savings off the class (prices go up August 31!)
– Priority email access to me, starting the day you sign up
If you’re ready to heal your heart, release your pain, and step into a more blissful future (and become A TRUE SUCCESS STORY!), sign up TODAY!
This is the last class I’m offering this year. Don’t miss out on your chance to heal your heart by the holidays!
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Can I really heal my heart in 8 weeks? Find out!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 8, 2009 - 11:00 pm
So many people ask me if it’s possible to heal your heart in record time. And while each case is individual, I created my 8 Week Heal Your Heart Teleclass specifically for women who were ready to rock their reinvention. Here’s what some of my past clients have to say about healing their hearts in just 8 weeks…
“Lisa Steadman’s 8 Week TeleClass is a wonderful resource for anyone who is going through a tough breakup. Each week, I learned something new that helped me on my journey back to what I wanted my life to be and it allowed me to learn from both Lisa and the experiences of the other members. Something special and wonderful can be said about knowing you are not the only person going through something like this and a great deal of strength can be gained. I truly looked forward to the call each week and I can honestly say the class provides high ROI for both your time and money.”
- Andrea M.
“When I bought ‘It’s a Breakup not a Breakdown,’ I never thought that I actually found a book that would get me through my big breakup with grace and dignity. When I joined Lisa’s 8 Week Class, my life transformed. The way Lisa guided me through my dilemmas and trials helped me realize that the only obstacle keeping me from my fabulous future was me. Lisa brings such positive insight on how to reinvent your future, that I actually am excited about what lies ahead for me. If you want to get through your recovery process as quickly as possible, I highly recommend Lisa’s class! You will not regret it!”
- Linda K.
“With the help of Lisa’s class, I finally created new boundaries with my ex, and now see him for who he really is. I was living with a lie for so long about the illusion of a great guy. Now, I finally see that there is a light at the end of the tunnel and I am an amazing woman who deserves real and important love. The most amazing experience during the class was the guided meditation about the future we dreamed about. I realized I want the Awesome Future and I can only make that happen when I let go and push myself forward to a better lifestyle. I also learned how to nurture myself and regularly practice self-nurturing techniques now.”
– Anna D.
Want to be your own success story? Sign up for my 8 Week Heal Your Heart By The Holidays TeleClass, starting October 12. Space is limited so HURRY!
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Don’t make THESE mistakes! (I did)
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 7, 2009 - 11:00 am
I’ve been doing a lot of press lately, talking about my new book It’s a Breakup, Not a Breakdown Workbook: A 21-Day Action Plan to Plot Your Revenge, Spoil Yourself, and Find Out How Good Your Life Is Without Him
One of the questions I’m asked over and over is this…
What mistakes did you make during your Big Breakup that you’d like other women to avoid?
My initial thought is, How much time have you got?
Truthfully, I committed many cardinal breakup sins along my journey towards Happily Ever After. Specifically…
• I stayed connected to my ex, falling in and out of bed with him for ONE YEAR after our second breakup, hoping, praying, and wishing our obvious incompatibilities could be conquered by simply LOVING EACH OTHER (which we weren’t very good at to begin with!)
• While I dated other guys during that year, my heart was so connected to my ex that I pushed them all away (and lost out on some really great guys!)
• I believed I WAS THE PROBLEM, I was a failure at love, and with nothing to look forward to in my future, why not stay stuck in the past?
• I stopped believing in myself, in my value, in my beauty, in my worth (this was the worst thing that happened!)
Sound familiar? Are you making these mistakes in your own heartbreak recovery?
If so, how long are you going to punish yourself?
How long will you tell yourself that where you are is acceptable, that you deserve the pain you’re in, and that happily ever after only exists for other people?
How long are you willing to stay stuck in the pain of the past, with no hope of ever stepping into your magnificent future?
What if you stopped beating yourself up today?
What would happen if you let go of your ex, stopped taking his calls, emails, and texts, and actually went cold turkey?
What MIGHT happen if you believed that there was someone else out there for you, someone BETTER SUITED for you, and that he was doing all his emotional work to get to you in record time? Wouldn’t you do the work necessary to reach him in record time?
Wouldn’t you start loving yourself more, treating yourself with kindness and compassion, and ask for the help you DESERVE?
I know you would. I know because I’ve been there, done the work, had the faith, and moved on to MY blissful future.
I’ve also seen it time and time again with the women I work with in my 8 Week Heal Your Heart Teleclasses.
Today, I invite you to stop making those mistakes that are killing your spirit. I want you to stop robbing yourself of your happiness. By doing this one thing differently, i.e. disconnecting from your ex, you will accelerate your healing and move on in record time.
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