“Rock Star” Replay PLUS 2 Amazing Calls this Week!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 15, 2008 - 1:15 pm
Did you miss the call last week on how to rock your
love life in the coming year? We covered a lot of
amazing information, including:
– how to dump your emotional attachment to your ex
– how to break free from the pain of the past
– how to become a total attraction magnet
– how to live and love your entire life in 2009
If you missed the call, it’s not too late! The digital
AUDIO replay is ready for you now
You can also download the MP3. But don’t wait, as this
link won’t be live for long.
PLUS, mark your calendar for 2 amazing events this week,
including:
Tuesday, December 16th at 6:30pm Pacific
Unlock 26 Secrets Successful Singles Know
Just in time for the new year, you can become your most
successful single self. Here are just some of the secrets
we’ll unlock on Tuesday night…
- Why it’s better to be single than sorry
- How to make the most of every day as a savvy single
- How to quickly and easily handle dating rejection
- How to easily attract the kind of partner you want
- How to play the dating numbers game and play to win!
Want to join in? Here are the dial in deets:
Phone-Number to Dial: 419-400-0202
Use Conference ID: 581274#
Got questions? Submit them here.
AND that’s not all…
Thursday, December 18th at 6:30pm Pacific
How to break free of bad love habits and limiting
relationship beliefs
To help make 2009 your most successful year yet, you may
need to break free of some bad love habits and limiting
relationship beliefs. During the call, we’ll discover
how to:
- Quickly and easily identify bad love habits
- Let go of limiting love beliefs
- Create a new love vocabulary
- Change the kind of individual one attracts
- Open yourself up to new life experiences
- Exponentially improves your quality of life!
Want to join in? Here are the dial in deets…
Phone-Number to Dial: 419-400-0202
Use Conference ID: 581274#
Got questions? Submit them here.
Tonight, Rock Your Love Life!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 11, 2008 - 10:05 am
Imagine how amazing it would feel this time next year to
have all the love, joy, and sense of personal peace you
deserve.
Whether you know it or not, all this and more is possible.
You may just need to do a little work between now and then.
You may need a little guidance.
Join me tonight at 6:30 PM Pacific for an exciting call to
find out how you can experience all this and more in 2009.
It’s not just about rocking your love life. It’s about
rocking your life. Period.
Here’s how to participate:
Phone-Number to Dial: 419-400-0202
Use Conference ID: 581274#
I hope you can make it. I’m excited to share this information
with you!
Got questions? Submit them here.
And if you’re really ready to get started, sign up now to rock
your love life in 2009.
Dating Tip of the Week: Become The Life of the Party!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 9, 2008 - 6:56 am
Want to rock your love life this holiday season? Channel your inner flirt and become the life of the party…
Good luck and happy dating!
Tis the season…for rocking your love life!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 8, 2008 - 6:55 am
Want to get real results in the relationship department?
Ready to become an attraction magnet?
Willing to do whatever it takes so you’re not still single this time next year?
Then you’re ready to let me help you rock your love life! First, what stage of rocking your love life are you in?
Ready to ditch your breakup blues and rock your recovery?
Ready to become a truly successful single?
I’m so excited to share this information with you. Mark your calendars, come with questions (or submit them online), and together we’ll rock your dating life this holiday season and into 2009!
Breakup Replay Available!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 7, 2008 - 7:16 am
Did you miss last week’s call on how to survive and thrive after a breakup? It’s not too late to rock your recovery by listening to the webcast replay here.
Here’s what you’ll discover:
- How to remove all evidence of your ex (both online and off)
- The importance of having a support system, a.k.a. Your Boo-Hoo Crew
- Why it’s essential to give your bedroom a makeover
- The importance of celebrating your slump
- How to deal with a breakup during the holidays
It’s not too late to commit to your fabulous future! Become a Breakup Rock Star Now.
Breakup Tip of the Week: Tis the season…to announce your breakup?
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 4, 2008 - 7:06 am
Tis the season to send holiday cards! And that means it may be time to announce your breakup. According to The Relationship Journalist, if you do it with style and sass, your breakup anxiety may just lift.
Good luck and happy healing!
Dating Tip of the Week: Brave the mall!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on - 6:50 am
Tis the season…to brave the mall! As a savvy single, you owe it to yourself to multi-task when holiday shopping. Keep your eye out for cuties! And be sure to stroll through target rich environments like the Apple Store, REI, and closeout sales at Circuit City…
Good luck and happy dating!
Tonight, Rock Your Breakup Recovery!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on December 2, 2008 - 6:59 am
Now that your turkey hangover is lifting, I’ve got a question for you…
Are you ready to do more than just survive your breakup? Are you ready to thrive?
Wouldn’t it be great if you could let go of those obsessive thoughts about your ex and his amazing future?
In fact, wouldn’t your recovery be so much easier if you could just break free from the pain of the past and move into your brilliant and beautiful future?
Whether you know it or not, your amazing future still exists. As a multiple breakup survivor myself, I can tell you that there’s more happiness and joy beyond the confines of your post-breakup pain. In fact, as someone who not only survived and thrived my big breakup, but recently married Mr. XY, my perfect partner, I want to help you get there.
Let me help you get there.
Join me tonight (Tuesday) @ 6:30 p.m. Pacific for an empowering and enlightening free teleseminar. Together, we’ll unlock the secrets of rediscovering your happily ever after future — without your ex!
Here are the dial in deets:
Phone-Number to Dial: 419-400-0202
Use Conference ID: 581274#
Got questions about surviving and thriving after a breakup? Submit them here.
Want a preview of the recovery secrets we’ll unlock? Together, we’ll learn:
- How to remove all evidence of your ex (both online and off)
- The importance of having a support system, a.k.a. Your Boo-Hoo Crew
- Why it’s essential to give your bedroom a makeover
- The importance of celebrating your slump
- How to deal with a breakup during the holidays
Want to listen online? Click here.
Otherwise, mark your calendar and dial in tonight at 6:30 p.m. Pacific.
Hope to have you on the call!
Interested in other relationship resources? Click here to view my coaching calendar.
Rock Your Love Life: 5 Ways to Get Real Results in 2009!
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 29, 2008 - 8:15 am
Raise your hand if you’re looking for love (or at least dating success) in 2009. Go ahead — raise ‘em. Congratulations! You’re one step closer to achieving that success. And in an effort to maximize your dating and mating success in 2009, I want to talk about the importance of taking risks. No, I’m not talking about dating an ex-con, falling back into bed with your ex because so far nobody better has come along, or trying your hand at dating a married man. I’m talking about taking calculated dating risks, risks that get you out of your comfort zone and into target rich environments on a regular basis. By taking calculated risks, you exponentially increase your likelihood of dating and mating success. Read on for details.
Rock Your Love Life by Multi-tasking
Thankfully, gone are the days of sitting at home alone on a Saturday night, knitting, watching TV, eating Ben & Jerry’s, and wishing you had a date. In 2008, you’re going to put your natural born multitasking skills to work in the dating arena. Yes, you’re going to join an online dating site (or 10) and actively pursue potential matches. But you’re also going to get up from behind that computer, put on your most bootylicious jeans, and go out on Saturday nights with your girlfriends (in target rich environments no less!). You’re going to attend singles events on a regular basis this year, not to mention recruit your happily hooked up male and female friends to be on the lookout for a cutie for you. Plus, you’re going to start flirting with strangers on a regular basis so that you can get comfortable with your personal flirting style.
Rock Your Results with Target Rich Environments
Say it loud, say it proud — I WILL put myself in target rich environments as often as possible in 2009! Now repeat that mantra on a daily basis and be sure to follow it. What’s a target rich environment? Any location where plenty of potential partners, a.k.a. single men or women with shared interests can be found. Chances are, your living room doesn’t count. Neither does your car, your cubicle, or your parents’ house. So where exactly do you encounter the kind of partner you could be into? Only you’ll know for sure but again, think about target rich environments in a calculated way. If you’re a culture junkie, try a museum on Saturday afternoon, that new jazz club on Friday night, or a fund-raising event for the arts. If you dig the outdoors, sign up for a sailing class, join the Sierra Club, or recruit your gal pals and have a picnic in a local park on Sunday afternoon. You get the idea. In 2009, it’s essential to get outside your comfort zone and into a target rich environment. ASAP!
Rock Your Love Life By Flirting With Strangers
Trolling online dating sites on a Friday night is one way to meet singles. In 2009, you’re going to flirt with actual live human beings, too. On a regular basis, no less! Here’s how. In addition to going to work, the gym, and home each day, you’re going to find a way in your daily routine to talk to/flirt with a stranger. Sound scary? It’s not. Again, this is about calculated risk. I’m not asking you to approach a stranger in a dark parking lot at midnight by yourself. I’m asking you to take your self-imposed blinders off long enough to see that there are singles everywhere. You heard me – everywhere! This is so easy for us to forget, but so unbelievably important to remind ourselves. Think about it. When you go to the grocery store, the bookstore, Starbucks, the dry cleaners, the gym, or even in the elevator at work, there are usually members of the opposite sex there. They may not all be single. They may not all be cute. They may not all be interested in you. But plain and simple, they are there. And in order to attract somebody fabulous, you’ve got to get comfortable talking to the opposite sex, starting with the people in your everyday life. The next time you’re in an elevator, or waiting for the light to change at the corner, or picking out produce and there happens to be a cutie nearby, you’re going to strike up a conversation. It doesn’t have to be witty. It doesn’t even have to be flirty. It just has to kick start your practice of talking to the strangers in your everyday life. A simple Hi, Do you know what time it is?, or Beautiful day, isn’t it? will suffice. This isn’t rocket science. It’s calculated conversation. And you’re going to get good at it. Someday soon, you may even enjoy it!
Become A Rock Star By Multi-Dating
Here’s the deal. In 2009, you’re going to date like you’ve never dated before. You’re going to go on coffee dates, speed dates, blind dates, etc. And you’re not going to wait to see how you feel about one date before booking another with someone else. Dating is a numbers game and you’ve got to be in it to win it! So go ahead and say yes to that lunch date with the cutie who works in your building while still making a coffee date with that potential sweetie you met online. By juggling multiple dates, you not only get a lot of practice in but you also take the pressure off the importance of any one particular date. And that makes it easier to just sit back and enjoy them all.
Rock Your Results By Turning Down Your Inner Critic
Okay, you’re putting yourself out there in 2008. You’re multitasking and multi-dating with the best of them. There’s just one more risk you need to take, and that involves turning down the volume on your inner critic. Your inner critic is that evil awful voice that whispers in your ear throughout dates. It’s the one that points out all of the flaws and all of the reasons why the cutie sitting across from you at Starbucks isn’t right for you without considering their good qualities or the reasons why they might be great for you. TURN THAT VOICE DOWN. Right now. Trust me — this is not the same as ignoring red flags. In fact, by turning down the volume on your inner critic you’ll be better equipped to notice red flags because you’re not so distracted by the incessant negative chatter going through your head throughout your dates.
Now that you know how to rock your love life in 2009, your dating future looks promising. When in doubt, revisit the tips above. Always remember that dating is a numbers game, and in order to be successful you have to put yourself out there, actively participate, take calculated risks, and try to have fun.
Ready to rock your love life in 2009?
Holiday Breakup Survival: 5 Tips to Rock Your Recovery
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 28, 2008 - 7:11 am
Whether your summer breakup still stings, your fall heartbreak feels fresh, or your holiday heartache has yet to happen, one thing’s for sure. The holiday season is almost upon us and dealing with a broken heart can be especially tough during these “feel good†months. After all, there are holiday gatherings to attend, mistletoe to stand under (GASP – alone!), and happy couples cozying up to one another wherever you turn.
Even with your broken heart, you can still enjoy the holidays this year. Here are some tried and true tips for surviving and thriving the holiday season following a breakup:
Breakup Survival Strategy #1: Focus on friends and family
Instead of obsessing about what went wrong with your ex, focus your energy and attention on your friends and family. You are loved by many people! You may just need to tweak your perspective. Take some time this holiday season to reconnect with old friends, tell a family member how much you love them, and in turn heal your broken heart.
Breakup Survival Strategy #2: Pamper yourself
Think of all the money you’re saving by being single this holiday season! No ungrateful ex to shop for, no annoying in-laws to visit, no ridiculous lovers’ spats after one too many cups of eggnog. This holiday season, celebrate your single status by pampering yourself. Spend a day at the spa. Splurge a little on gifts for yourself. Decorate your home to your heart’s content. Whatever floats your boat, you’re footloose and fancy free to do it!
Breakup Survival Strategy #3: Reserve the right to say “None of your bees-waxâ€
Nosey relatives asking too many questions about What went wrong? Well-meaning but intrusive friends trying to tell you what to do next time? This holiday season, your breakup is nobody’s business but your own. So when someone sidles up to you with a gossip gleam in their eye and asks, “So where’s What’s His Name?†reserve the right to protect your healing heart. Simply smile and say, “None of your business.†Or, if you’re so inclined, choose a more radical response, i.e. “I shipped him off to Iraq for the new year,†or “He’s contemplating his bad behavior from behind ex-boyfriend bars.†This holiday season, put your healing heart first and put a stop to those nosey questions about the breakup.
Breakup Survival Strategy #4: Become your own arm candy
After a breakup, it’s sometimes difficult to get used to going to parties alone again. The holiday season makes it even tougher because there are so many parties to go to. Instead of fretting about all those outings by yourself, celebrate being single by being your own arm candy! Before going to the party, stop by the mall makeup counter and get a professional makeover. Wear that saucy red dress and stiletto boots. (Or if you’re a guy, invest in that cologne that makes women weak at the knees, or buy a new sweater or blazer that makes you feel like the hunk o’ man you are). Then walk into the party like you own the room. Go ahead – give yourself permission to be your own arm candy!
Breakup Survival Strategy #5: Reserve the right to celebrate your slump
There will be times this holiday season when you won’t feel like celebrating. Times when you will want to mourn the loss of your past relationship. And that’s okay. Give yourself permission to turn down a party imitation or two in favor of curling up with a good book, a glass of wine, or your favorite sappy movie in your pajamas at home. The best way to truly move on after a breakup is to first celebrate your slump. And if you want to celebrate your slump all season long? That’s your prerogative. Go for it!
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