Dating Tip of the Week: Play the numbers game!

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on April 24, 2008 - 7:31 am

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If dating is a game (and it is), then successful singles play to win. How? By understanding that it’s all about the numbers, Baby! Gone are the days of sitting home by the phone waiting for some guy (or girl) to call. In 2008, savvy singles regularly attend singles events, put themselves in target rich environments, and are active online daters. They understand that not everyone’s going to be a match for them and so they practice, practice, practice with a variety of interesting and available partners until they find someone worthy of being exclusive with. This goes for both men and women. And even when they go through a dry dating spell, savvy singles continue to put themselves out there, spend time with their amazing circle of friends, and enjoy their savvy single lives.

This weekend, put the numbers game into practice for yourself. Wherever you go, whether it’s the beach, the grocery store, a bookstore, or Starbucks, play the numbers game. Look around, make eye contact, smile, even flirt with any cuties you see around you. It doesn’t have to go anywhere. But by playing the numbers game, you are practicing, getting comfortable in your own savvy single skin, and enjoying these random encounters. And you may just get or give a phone number out of it!

Good luck and happy dating!