Advice of the week (11/26/07)

Submitted by on November 26, 2007 - 8:44 am

Megan writes: My boyfriend spends hours on the computer looking at other girls. He’s even contacted girls in the past about hooking up, even though we’re together. I don’t understand why he’s doing this and I don’t know where we stand.

Lisa says: Assuming you’ve talked to him about his behavior and he’s still doing it, what part of this scenario is working for you? He’s obviously getting his needs met, but what about you?  You, too, deserve to have the kind of relationship you want.  And if this behavior is unacceptable (and it sounds like it is), then maybe it’s time to reevaluate the relationship.  Stand up for yourself and be true to what you want and deserve.

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