Advice of the week (11/19/07)

Submitted by Lisa Steadman on November 20, 2007 - 9:16 am

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mochalips writes: So, it’s been almost 6 months. It seems impossible to get a date. I’ve had one date since the big breakup!! The guy was not interested b/c I didn’t have kids and did not grow up on a farm. Since then, I’ve not come across one person that interests me. It really is lonely nearing the 30s!!! I’m keeping very busy but at the same time trying to keep an eye out. I wish I could at least meet some people to date. What’s going on??!

Lisa says: Going through a dating dry spell after a breakup is perfectly normal.  In fact, I think it’s a test from the universe to see how strong you are.  Don’t give up or give in just because you haven’t met anyone amazing yet.  These things take time.  And even though you may think you’re running out of time nearing 30, your life is just beginning.  The 30s are an amazing time of transformation and growth!  Be patient.  Enjoy yourself.  Keep up your busy schedule while keeping that eye out for someone special.  Date when the opportunity arises, and in the meantime give thanks for being footloose and fancy free of the wrong relationship.  It gets easier, I promise.

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