NEW FEATURE – The Target-Rich Report
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 22, 2007 - 3:21 pm
Mr. XY and I recently moved to a new neighborhood that we both absolutely adore. One of the things we really like about it is that it’s so pedestrian friendly, which is unusual in Los Angeles. We walk to the grocery store, the bank, post office, our favorite coffee place, etc. And not only do we walk, but plenty of other people do, too. Young, old, single, families, and everyone in between. Which got me thinking…
Oftentimes after we’ve healed from a breakup and are ready to move on, we don’t exactly know how to get back out there. While we’d like to date again, we may be stumped for where to go to meet potential love interests. Sure, the internet’s a good tool. But it shouldn’t be your only resource. I’m a big believer in the in-person approach, i.e. striking up a conversation with a cute stranger in a comfortable environment. To increase the odds of meeting someone you’re compatible with, I encourage my coaching clients to identify the type of person they’re looking to attract, and then put themselves in target-rich environments on a regular basis.
TARGET-RICH ENVIRONMENT: Any location where single and ready to mingle individuals can find a decent selection of potential single and ready to mingle candidates of their desired caliber. For example, a dive bar may be target-rich, but is that the target you’re aiming for? If not, adjust your sites accordingly. Think charity fundraiser. Evening activities at your local museum. Volunteering for a good cause.
Introducing The Target-Rich Report, a new blog feature where I’ll regularly share a potential target-rich environment. I encourage you to share any you discover as well. Without further ado, here’s the first installment…
Your Local Coffee Shop
When I was single, I enjoyed numerous flirtations with gentlemen I met while standing in the latte line. Better yet, stop by your favorite local coffee shop on a Saturday morning looking casual and cute. Instead of ordering your cup of Joe to go, stay awhile. Read a magazine, flip through the paper, and be sure to smile at any cuties you make eye contact with. If nothing else, it’s great practice!
Outdoor Festivals
This past weekend, my neighborhood was taken over by a two day music festival. Everywhere you looked, there were interesting and attractive people, all with a common interest – Indie music. Why not seek out an outdoor festival that caters to your interests and then recruit some friends to join you for a weekend of fun in a target-rich environment?
Bookstores
Ladies, take note. Well-read single guys tend to frequent bookstores, and you should, too. Spend some quality time in a section you enjoy, like travel or cooking or at the magazine rack. Casually keep your eye out for any cuties, and if they meet your gaze offer them a friendly smile. Can’t hurt!
Stay tuned for the next installment of The Target-Rich Report. And in the meantime, share your own target-rich environments!
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