This week’s advice (8/20/07)
Submitted by Lisa Steadman on August 20, 2007 - 4:16 pm
Anonymous writes: Well I’m with this guy and in all of my past relationships I have been cheated on and this guy that I’m with now just seems to good to be true.  I ask him all the time if he is seeing other girls and stuff like that and I know it makes him upset but he is still with me. How do I get to the point where I can trust again?
The Relationship Journalist says: I know it hurts to get cheated on, especially repeatedly, but you shouldn’t make your current boyfriend pay for your exes’ bad behavior. He is not the one who cheated on you. It’s up to you to trust him and work through your own insecurities and fears. But to keep torturing him? That’s not fair. Give this guy the chance he deserves or do him a favor and cut him loose.
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